Strap on

Strap on

Strap On is the term used to refer to a sexual toy that is strapped to one person to be used on another person either to tease, perform oral and suck on, or to penetrate (vaginal or anal). Strap Ons are tools for females to use on their partner and can be very popular during Female-Female-Male threesomes, so if you feel like trying something new discuss it with your partner and see if you both like the idea. If you do then it is just a matter of finding the right one for you.

Shopping with your partner for sex toys can help you learn a little about your partner and their interests. If you are just starting out with a strap on, don't underestimate the size! It might not look intimidating right now, but that is in a nice, warm, well-lit shop with lots of space. In the bedroom it might be another matter, so look around. There are strap ons for all occasions, such as smooth for the newcomers, ones shaped to look like a penis, vibrating ones, and some that have added spikes and ridges to enhance the pleasure. See what is available and which you like the look of, and make sure you have plenty of lubrication to hand. If your partner already has one, check to see if you are comfortable with it before you get down to business.

Strap ons, as described before, can be used in a variety of different ways in the bedroom, though the main way is for penetration. If you are going to enjoy it, make sure you use a generous amount of lubrication to help you along. Take it slow and don't rush so that you avoid any unnecessary unpleasantness. Tell your partner what feels good and if you want them to continue - it can be a great turn on for your partner to hear how much you love it and if you want to take more. You know your limits and what you like, so let them know so you can spend more time enjoying it.

For those hoping to use the toy more than once, make sure you clean it thoroughly between uses! You can buy specialised wipes for sex toys, and cleaning them before and after use can help prevent the spread of any nasty infections - making it a much more enjoyable experience overall!

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