When Should You Be Having Sex?

For whatever reason, we are obsessed by how much sex everyone else has. We want to know how often they have sex and when they have sex, so that we can see if our sex lives match up to theirs. We want to have the “normal” amount of sex, and to do that we need to find out what “normal” actually is.

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Of course, there have been plenty of studies to tell us that, actually, there is no such thing as normal sex. There are couples who manage to have sex pretty much every day, and those who can go for months without it. There are couples who do nothing but traditional vanilla sex, and those who only touch vanilla stuff when they are eating ice cream.

However, it seems that, while there is no “perfect” amount of sex, there might just be a good time to have sex, and even the best day of the week for you to get it on. We take a look at when this might be so that you can start having some of the best sex of your life.

The sexiest day of the week is… Wednesday?

If you only seem to be able to fit in one session of hot and passionate sex a week, you will probably be doing it over the weekend. After all, most people are winding down from their busy work week then, and they will be feeling at their most relaxed on a Friday when they get that feeling of freedom as they walk out of the front doors of work. After all, The Cure did sing “Friday I’m In Love” for a reason, right?

Well, there are plenty of couples out there who can tell you that sex on the weekend is good, but you could be having a lot more fun if you switched your sex sessions to Wednesday. Wednesday is often referred to at work as ‘hump day’, as you are getting over the hill and are halfway through the working week. Freedom is in sight!

Some couples have said that taking advantage of this momentary lift in spirits mid-week is actually a great way to spice things up. Doing the usual things, such as cooking and cleaning, on other days will give you more time together, and you can have even more passionate sex with no worries on your mind.

10pm is the best time to fuck

There are plenty of sex studies out there, and many of them are carried out by interested universities or even companies with an interest in sex. One of those companies is Match.com, who wanted to find out about the sex lives of others. They started their “Singles in America” study and got a range of men and women to fill them in on the best time to have sex.

The answer was pretty shocking. A huge 65% of men and 69% of women said that 10pm was “the most ideal time to have sex”, and that both parties were usually at their hottest and horniest at that time. But just what is it that makes 10 o’clock at night the best time to get down and dirty under the sheets?

For a start, your food will have had time to settle. It might sound like we are stating the obvious, but when you’ve eaten a large dinner you often feel completely unsexy, and the last thing you want is to be thrusting and feeling your stomach turning as you are doing with all the food you have consumed. Most people are also at the point where they are starting to wind down for men, and a quick sex session is a great way to use up that last little bit of energy for the day and help ensure you get a good night’s sleep. Do we really need any more reason to get it on late at night? I didn’t think so!

Sex gets better with age

There are many different things in life that are said to get better with age. Things like cheese, whiskey, and wine are just some of them, and now you can add sex to that list. All of the fun things in life are so much better as time goes by, and sex is no exception to that rule.

A leading condom brand decided to find out about our sex lives, and they conducted a study to find out how much sex we are having. They discovered that the most active were 35 to 44 year olds, and 62% of them would have sex at least once a week.

You might think that figure isn’t very impressive, but they found that only a small number of 18 to 24 year olds were having sex once a week, so those mature women and men out there are actually doing better than the young people who walk around thinking that they were the ones who invented sex in the first place!

Combining them all

If you combine all of these points together you might just be in for the best sex of your life. After all, as you get older you start to learn new things in the bedroom and become more open to new experiences, which you can try out on a Wednesday night at 10pm quite happily.

Of course, we are all different. While a lot of men and women might find that 10 o’clock is the perfect time for them to have sex, this simply might not fit your routine. Do what works for you, and not simply what others are doing.

Do you agree that 10pm on a Wednesday night is the perfect time to have sex, or do you find that you are at your horniest at another time of day? Let us know in the comment box below or see what others are saying by heading over to the Escort Norway forum.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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2 thoughts on “When Should You Be Having Sex?”

  1. I don’t really need to have people tell me when to have sex.
    If I am horny, then I will go out and get it, if I am lucky enough to get it in the first place.

  2. Ikke ha sex når hun er på hennes periode.
    Men hvis dere begge liker anal, så kan du ha sex når som helst.

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