What You Need To Know About Eating Pussy

A lot of women struggle to get to orgasm when it is just your penis in their pussy. It might feel great for them, yes, and we know that you love it too, but we often need a little something extra to help get us over the edge and leave us screaming your name out loud for everyone to hear. For many of us, it can be something as simple as your finger rubbing our clit, but sometimes your tongue licking away while your fingers slide in and out is the best way to do it.

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However, there seems to be a problem here. Women don’t seem to be getting their pussy eaten in the way they deserve to, and while there are some guys out there who love doing it (and we really do thank you, gents!) there are also plenty who feel that it is disgusting and that there are better ways to spend their time… so we take a look at the things that you need to know when eating pussy.

One bad experience…

One of the main reasons that guys don’t seem to like doing it is that they have had a bad experience before, and we can understand that. When you have a bad time trying something out it can put you off doing it ever again, and so you’ll do your best to avoid it.

However, if you did that every time something bad happened, you’d pretty much get nothing done. After all, how many times have you had sex and found that it was terrible? Yet you still go out and passionately fuck whenever you can, so why are you avoiding oral?

For many, they find that their partner just hasn’t cleaned themselves as thoroughly as they might like. They may have a few rogue hairs from their wax, or they might have simply missed something. This puts people off, but there is a ridiculously easy way of fixing that, and that’s by jumping in the shower with them.

When you are in the shower together, you can take your time to wash their pussy while making it seem as though you are simply trying to pleasure them. It saves an awkward conversation and do you really want to turn down the chance to join your partner in the shower?

Lazy and tired

Sometimes you just aren’t in the mood for it, as you are tired or just feeling particularly lazy. You don’t want to go to the effort of eating your partner out because it can take a while to get them to orgasm, and in that time your tongue will ache and you’ll get bored.

However, the reason for the aching tongue is because you aren’t using it in the best way. You don’t have to keep your tongue tense to give your partner pleasure.

In fact, the best way to use your tongue during oral sex is to keep it flat. When it is flat you can gently rub it from side to side on her clit to help get her to orgasm, and you won’t end up with a sore tongue that you need to rest after a minute.

People also tend to forget that women find it easier to orgasm when they have the same constant stimulation. That means you don’t have to pull out all of the tricks to get them off. Instead, you can simply rub slow and smooth circles on their clit, making it the perfect thing to do when you just don’t have the energy.

It isn’t rocket science

For some people, they feel that performing oral sex on a woman is something akin to brain surgery or rocket science, simply because of how long it takes and the fact that many are clueless about what their partner needs to get off.

The thing is, pussy eating really isn’t rocket science. It is actually very simple if you remember the two main rules that are often forgotten when it comes to oral sex, and you’ll see just how simple it is when you learn them.

One of the rules we have already mentioned: if your partner is enjoying what you are doing, don’t start changing things up. Women need stimulation to stay the same during sex, and if you change the speed or technique they can lose their orgasm… which definitely isn’t what you want.

The second rule is that it gets easier if you take to your partner. We don’t mean that you have to sit down with them and say “excuse me, darling, but would you mind awfully describing everything you like about oral sex to me please?” because that is the quickest way to turn them off. Instead, don’t be afraid to ask them afterwards how it was. If they just grin at you, you’re probably doing it right. If not, you can talk to them about sex and figure out what they do and don’t like.

Time to man up

The problem is that there are too many out there going “ew” at the thought of oral sex, and so they just don’t want to do it. They might have tried it once and not enjoyed it, and so they’ll have signed off on it completely.

However, if you want your partner to continue sucking your cock in the way you like, you might just have to man up a little and at least try it again with them.

If you’re looking for the best tips for technique, the Escort Norway blog has plenty of great tips for you to learn and read about, as well as some saucy sex stories for you to enjoy.

Think you have the best tips for eating pussy? Why not share them with others? You can do this in the comment box below or join in the discussion over on the Escort Norway forum.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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