What Turns Women On About Threesomes?

Men love the idea of threesomes. Having two sexy women there to kiss them, suck their cocks, and fuck them is a fantasy many have, but it isn’t just limited to men. Lots of women also dream about being fucked by a man and a woman in a sexy threesome.

Sexy man and hot women in a bedroom getting ready for a threesome

So what is it about a threesome that women find such a turn on, and what can you do to make a sexy situation with two women and a man even hotter for them?

Fulfilling a fantasy

Having a threesome is a really common sexual fantasy for men. In fact, it is probably the number one fantasy that men have. They love the idea of getting all of the attention in the bedroom, and it gives them a chance to try having sex with someone else without being unfaithful.

Even better is that, often, it involves their wife’s friend who is totally sexy and they have always fantasied about, and you get to see them in a whole new light.

It is the same for women. Many women find the idea of having sex with their partner and another sexy woman or man is a huge turn on, and the fact that they get to fulfil this fantasy with their partner is even better.

Getting out of your comfort zone

Sex becomes stale very quickly. You might find that you have fallen into a sex rut, where you only do the same positions, the same tricks, and the same things over and over again. Sometimes the only way to break out of that is to try something new.

A study by Meredith Chivers suggests that, actually, many women are looking for “no-strings sex”, and a threesome is a fun way of getting that.

Having a threesome is sometimes one of the safer options in bed. You might want to try something new to spice up your sex life, and a threesome feels safer. Yes, you get nervous because you don’t know the other person in the threesome as well as your partner, but your partner there makes it feel that little bit more comfortable to you, and that can help you get to know your wild side better.

Women find women sexy

Earlier we mentioned a study by Meredith Chivers, where she believed that no-strings attached sex was what women were seeking, but that isn’t the whole story. In her study, she played some pornographic audiotapes to the participating women in the study and asked them to rated how turned on they were by them.

However, she also had them hooked up to some sensitive equipment to see if what they said matched how their pussies reacted. While the women believed that they were more turned on by the scenes with men, it seems that their cunts told an entirely different story. The same sex fantasies turned them on more.

In fact, a lot of women, when looking for porn, will watch lesbian or threesome porn featuring two women. Honestly, most women are a little curious as to what it would be like but don’t want to go the whole way and sleep only with a woman. A threesome is a great compromise.

We are competitive

We women are competitive, and if you put us against each other in the bedroom, we will work to be the best and bring you the most pleasure. Yes, sometimes we will work together, but we want to be the one to make you come and the one that you think about when you remember your threesome.

We want you to be paying attention to us in the threesome, and to be looking at us when you come. It tells us that you want us, and when there is another woman in the room turning you on and trying to get your attention, it is a great way to let us know how much you appreciate us.

Besides, would you really complain is two women were trying to make you come in bed at the same time? We doubt it.

Seeing your reaction

Enjoying a threesome has many advantages for women, but one of the big ones is the ego boost it gives you. How many people can say that they didn’t feel fucking fantastic about themselves after a great three-way?

For women, they feel incredibly sexy. After all, they get to enjoy two people wanting to touch every inch of their body, and being the centre of attention when you are naked helps to show them just how sexy and hot they are.

An added bonus is seeing your reaction. She wants to see your phase when she sucks the other woman’s nipple into her mouth, or when she sits on the woman’s face and comes while watching you. Seeing your turned-on face while she tries things with a woman is part of the appeal.

It is fun!

Threesomes are a lot of fun when done right, hence why it is such a huge fantasy for people to have. They want to join in with the fun and see what it is like for themselves, and what better way to do that than by actually having one?

For the most part, women will have a friend that they would be more than happy inviting to a threesome. It might not be their closest friend, but it will be a friend they consider hot and sexy, and the idea of getting to enjoy a threesome will turn the both of you on instantly.

If things don’t go to plan, then what? Well, we will know that maybe it isn’t right for us, but by taking that step and trying out a threesome, we will feel more confident about ourselves and what we want in the bedroom, so we are much more likely to experiment. What is the biggest turn on for you about a threesome? Share it with us by writing in the comment box below or by visiting the Escort Norway forum.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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