What Dating A Porn Star Is Really Like

Considering how much time we spend on average watching porn and jerking off to it, it would be surprising if we never found ourselves fantasising about what it is like to date a porn star.
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Many people, when booking a date with one of the escorts in Norway, will ask for the PSE, or porn star experience, so that they can experience what it would be like with a porn star. Clearly, it is a fantasy of many to be with a porn star.

Recently, Vice asked the boyfriends of three porn stars about what dating a porn star is really like, and their answers might surprise you.

Strange beginnings

Obviously, at the beginning things were a little challenging for them. Getting used to your partner having a job in porn can take a lot of getting used to.

For one, the industry tends to be surrounded by stigma, as people make assumptions about what your job actually is. It’s the same as the escort industry in that way. Secondly, starting a relationship might be good for you, but jealousy can creep in and ruin it.

It takes someone very understanding to actually sit down and listen to what their job is actually about, and considering most people think it is purely for sex addicts, you can imagine why dating and the porn industry might not mix too well.

That said, if you can manage to sit down and understand what porn and the sex industry is really like, instead of believing all of the stigma surrounding it, you might just realise what is going on, and that not everyone involved in it is a sex maniac.

Aaron, who is dating the sexy punk princess Joanna Angel, explained what it was like at the beginning: “hard isn’t the right word, no pun intended. It was unfamiliar; the whole industry was something I didn’t know anything about. I didn’t know how it worked. I’ve played in bands for many years. To me, the music business is very similar to the porn industry.”

What do they get up to?

One of the problems of dating someone in the porn industry is that, of course, people assume that all you do is have sex. They think you fuck each other all day, every day, without a break in between and without stopping to have an actual conversation. Needless to say, the lucky men dating their sexy porn star girlfriends proved otherwise.

When asked if they were “ever too tired for sex with each other”, Aaron explained that “On days that we’re shooting, we’re probably not going to have some kind of crazy two-hour long Kama Sutra sex… You come home, you’re tired. We might make a little dinner, walk the dog, and snuggle up.”

Tyler, boyfriend to Sydney Leathers, said that he was “shocked in the beginning just how affectionate she could be instead of ‘Oh, she’s just going to fuck me!'”

He admits that, before they started dating, his views on the porn industry were very different. “I think I had a skewed idea of how the porn industry works. It’s very mechanical and not what you expect. The average porn viewer is not getting an accurate interpretation of what’s going on. They’re actually human beings, believe it or not.”
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Challenges

Obviously, dating a porn star comes with its own unique set of challenges. One of the main ones is jealousy, but for Annie Cruz’s boyfriend Donald, it isn’t an issue. In fact, he is so proud of her and the things she gets up to during her working day that we think they might be the perfect match. He says “I’ve been on set before and watched her get plowed by a big Russian cock and gave her a high five.”

For Aaron, it has only strengthened their relationship. “Not that I know how it works, all the things that [would cause] a normal dude to say “Isn’t this hard?” are no big deal.” He goes on to tackle the most common question he gets asked: “how do you date someone who has sex with other dudes?” “Now I know the reality of how it works. It’s an extremely controlled environment. It’s safe.”

However, Tyler and his girlfriend Sydney Leathers have seen the dark side of the industry, when the spotlight was on her for the wrong reasons. “People pretend to know her, and us and our relationship, because she is in the spotlight from time to time. This recent scandal she was going through with this congressman from Indiana was in the local news. So people were like, “I saw your girlfriend in the news.” …she has a bad name, but it’s really not like that at all!”

Clearly, there are many different pros and cons to dating a porn star, just as there are pros and cons to dating someone in ANY job. Your job doesn’t define you. It is simply what you do for a living, and many in the sex industry actually REALLY enjoy their work!

Would you ever consider dating a porn star, or are you more than happy to enjoy the porn star experience with one of the local escorts? Let us know by heading to the Escort Norway forum, or by leaving a comment in the box below.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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