Is Having A Threesome Worth It?

Having a threesome is pretty much a favourite fantasy for a hell of a lot of people. It is the one thing that we all want to try in the bedroom, and whenever we hear stories about threesomes, it only adds fuel to the fire. Threesomes are the ultimate sexual fantasy.

Is Having A Threesome Really Worth It

However, the problem is that there are plenty of threesome horror stories out there. Some believe that threesomes are a waste of time and just something to tick off of the bucket list. Others suggest that they are overrated. There are also a number of people who say that all of the reasons are rubbish, and that having a threesome is the great thing ever… so which is it?

Here on the Escort Norway blog, we take a look at the many different pros and cons of having a threesome, so that you can decide for yourself if it is really worth it.

Finding the right partner!

The first step to a successful threesome is to find the right partner. If you get the wrong partner, it can lead to a lot of trouble, so figuring out the perfect person to join you is essential.

Often, people make the mistake of asking a close friend… or asking their partner about someone they have a crush on. It seems like a great idea, but if things go wrong, it can ruin not only a friendship, but also your relationship. If either of you aren’t 100% on having it, or there are trust issues, don’t do it.

A lot of people claim that the best kind of partners for this type of fun are those with no emotional attachments to you or your partner. That means friends are totally off the table… but you could always hire an escort. If an escort accepts couples, you’ll find that they have the experience to help guide the session and make it as fun for everyone as possible. Want more reasons to call an escort for your three way fun? We have a blog especially for that.

You get to experiment!

One of the biggest pros of having a threesome is that you get to experiment! You can tick off a big thing from your bucket list, and if you are a little more open about your sexuality, you can explore it even further with two other sexy people to join you.

You can have all women, all men, MMF or FFM, so the rich and various combinations really let you go wild. You can also get some great tips just by watching for a little while, as you don’t have to be active the entire time.

Performance issues

Of course, threesomes are very intense. You will be getting pleasure almost all of the time… even if you are simply sitting back and watching for a while. If you have performance anxiety or any performance problems, a threesome can make them painfully obvious to you.

Things like numbing gels and extra thick condoms can help, but you might find that the best way around this is to have partners who understand. They will be more than happy to wait if you need a break, so talk to them about your concerns. The chances are that they will be incredibly understanding, and we are sure you will be able to think of a few things to do to pass the time during a break.

It can be awkward

One of the biggest problems facing people who want to have a threesome is how awkward it can get. In the matter of a few moments, your kinky sex encounter can turn into something a lot more uncomfortable for all involved.

During, you might find yourself running out of ideas or things to do. This means you might end up on the sidelines, wondering how to get involved. You might even find that those involved in the fun with you spend more time giving attention to each other, and so you are left feeling like the third wheel.

It can be just as bad, if not worse, afterwards. No-one really knows what to say when it is finished. “Thank you for joining us”? “Come again?” Prepare yourself for an awkward conversation, and if you feel it going that way, try to make a joke to lighten the mood. It can really help.

A threesome is also really fun!

One of the biggest and best reasons to have a threesome? It is fun! You will never have an experience quite like it. You get the attention of two other sexy people on you, and you will find yourself grinning and feeling fantastic at some point during the encounter… even if you get to the end and decide it isn’t for you.

Have you ever engaged in a three way? Is a ménage à trois something you want to try in the future? Let us know by leaving a comment in the box below, or by heading over to the Escort Norway forum and joining in the discussion there.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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