Things You Need To Know To Get More Oral Sex

Gentlemen, we get it. You love getting blowjobs. The feeling of some hot, wet lips around your cock, slowly sliding up and down as their hand tugs on your balls is so amazing that you want every single day to be Steak and a Blowjob day. Unfortunately, many of you have to instead settle for the occasional blowjob, which comes about as often as Father Christmas does.

Smiling lovers in bed in bedroom

Yet there is another way. Getting more oral sex might seem to be an impossible dream, but it is one that you can actually accomplish… if you know what you are doing. Here on Escort Norway we have done the hard work for you and have figured out exactly what it is you need to do to get some more blowjobs in your life. No need to thank us, just read the guide and you might soon be lying back with a moist mouth on your dick.

Don’t be a nag

As with many things in the bedroom, you have to take the time to learn the various dos and don’ts. There are some things that you instantly know are wrong, such as bringing up her mother while you’re fucking her in the ass. There are also some things that you might not know about, such as hinting over and over again for a blowjob.

It will get to a certain point where your totally innocent hint comes across as nagging, and we all know how irritating nagging is! The more you nag for a blowjob, the less she will want to do it, and so you will be even further away from the possibility of a blowjob than you were when you started.

Instead, you need to choose the perfect way to tell her what you want. Next time you’re in bed and getting down to it, you should tell her how much you love her mouth around your cock. Tell her you love the feeling of her tongue sliding up and down your shaft, and that she always knows how to keep you on the edge. If you praise her and tell her how good she is at it, she will want to do it more. If you do this while she is giving you a blowjob, she will put even more effort into it, which is great for you!

Let her be in control

We understand that you might have a fantasy in your hand, where you push your cock into her mouth and make you cock on it as you tell her to take it like the slut that she is, but if you do this without her consent she will either never go near your cock again or do something to it that you really don’t want to think about, just to get away from you. Don’t put yourself in that position!

Instead, you need to talk about your fantasy to her beforehand. It could be that she is eager to try it, and if that is the case then great! Simply set a safe word and you are good to go.

However, if she isn’t and doesn’t seem to be giving a very good blowjob, you can instead hint on what works for you. Instead of saying “go deeper”, you could say “it is so hot when you push my cock to the back of your mouth”. She might demonstrate on you, which gives you the perfect chance to moan and show her how good it makes you feel.

Make things pleasant for her

There are a number of reasons that women really don’t like giving head. For a start, it isn’t called a blowjob for nothing. It really is hard work, with lots of sucking and head bobbing that leads to neck and jaw ache, and sometimes it seems that you guys just don’t appreciate the effort we women go to.

If you want her to do it more, you need to make it as pleasant for her as possible. Start off by giving your cock a really good wash. Take the time to roll back the foreskin and clean every inch to make sure she won’t discover any unpleasant surprises, and you are sure to be in for a treat.

Another thing you can do while in the shower is trim back the hair. You probably won’t like going down on a woman, only to find the rogue pubic hair worming its way into your teeth, so trim them back. If that isn’t enough of a reason to convince you, keeping the hair tidy down there can actually make your cock seem bigger, and who doesn’t like a bigger looking dick?

Return the favour

At some point or another, we all get a little bit selfish in bed. We don’t want to return the favour and are more than happy to simply roll over and be done with it, but that can make it seem as though our partner’s efforts are wasted and mean nothing to us. In their mind they will feel as though you are basically saying “thanks for the blowjob, but no thanks” and so won’t want to do it again.

If you want her to make the effort, you have to do the same. Once you have finished unloading into her mouth, get her to lie back and kiss your way slowly down her body. Let your tongue trail around her pussy lips and see how close you can bring her to orgasm. Tease her before you let her come and she will want to give you more blowjobs if only so you’ll go down on her more.

Do you enjoy receiving blowjobs, or do you prefer giving oral sex? Share your thoughts in the comment box below, or you could join in the discussion over on the Escort Norway forum and see what others have to say!

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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