We are all different and we have a variety of fetishes! That doesn’t sound like a problem, but the fact that we have to keep them a secret from people around us might be. If you are one of the persons who have a fetish you know how hard it used to be in the past, when you had to hide from everybody, even from the closest people.
Well, fortunately, things have changed and more and more people agree with the fact that when it comes to sex, pretty much anything is accepted. Well, we have to be honest and admit that there are some fetishes that stop us from breathing for a couple of seconds, but many of them stopped being strange to most of us.
I Think, Therefore I Kink
Before moving to the list that gathers some of the most popular fetishes, let’s define and try to understand the general roots of the fetishes.
So, what is a sexual fetish? Well, we can describe it as something far from being sexual, normally needed by people to get aroused. Therefore, it can be a body part, an object and even a material, like latex. Yes, you guessed: anything can become a fetish for somebody.
What triggers the fetish? This is a question that doesn’t have a sole answer. Fetishes might be caused by an object that subconsciously reminds you of a masturbation moment in your childhood, for example! We could get into this deeper, but why ruin our kinky talk? Whatever the unconscious reason is, the result is the same: we are human and we have fetishes!
Does this harm us? Well, I like light bondage so, I would say not at all! And as far as I know, the most common fetishes don’t harm people. If they were, they would be less familiar, don’t you think? Therefore, as long as you don’t enjoy your neck being cut with a knife while your penis is orally pleasured, you’re safe!
So, are you ready to have a look at the most frequent fetishes?
These Boots Are Made for Walking – Foot Worship
This is so familiar that it’s going to become taboo not to have a foot fetish! These fetishists find a multitude of attractions surrounding the feet they adore. For instance, they can fall for the size or the shape of the feet and toes.
For many this might sound strange, but there are people who are attracted by long toes while others worship feet with short toes. Some are captivated by bare feet and other by the shoes the girls are wearing. Regarding the actions foot fetishists are fond of, the number is quite high. For example, they like smelling women’s feet, licking or biting them and even sucking their toes!
And guess what, it seems that it’s a huge thing to worship feet in New York since people are paying $200 and an entrance fee for a private place where they can lick and “worship” women’s feet.
I Like Big Butts and I Cannot Lie!
Unfortunately for some, (no offense, I’m with you girls!) there has been no song written about small butts. So, I guess big asses are part of men’s fantasies. Yes, anal sex is another fetish that became so common, you may sound a freak saying “No” to anal.
But wait, ladies! Boobs are also worshiped so don’t be sad if your ass is tiny. No man will dare to refuse a hot sexy Russian job (yes, that’s boob sex)
If you don’t have any of these, be happy we live in the world where anything can be repaired or…hidden. So, depending on your problems, grab a push-up bra or a pair of butt lifting jeans and you’re going to be in the dreams of all fetishists.
Yo’ Mamma’s So Hot – Anililagnia
Most people don’t know the word for it, but anililagnia is another extremely common fetish. Don’t you believe me? Tell me one guy who doesn’t like older women. Personally, I don’t know anybody who is not attracted to a hot sexy MILF.
Unfortunately, I am the daughter of somebody who used to be the MILF in the neighborhood. Hearing “Blow my whistle MILF” might be funny until you turn around and…see your mom coming from the market!
Otherwise, I can completely understand this fetish. Some moms are hot and on top of that they are very experienced. If I were a man I’d definitely have this fetish!
Every Step You Take, Every Move You Make – Voyeurism
Is there anybody who doesn’t watch porn? Please, girls, don’t be shy! We all know that there are two types of women: those who watch porn and those who don’t admit they do! So yeah, voyeurism is the fetish referring to people getting turned on by watching others having sex.
While this might become creepy when watching your neighbors, especially if they aren’t aware of your game, it’s nothing unusual when watching porn, is it? So, thank you, porn industry!
Keep Calm and Wear Leather!
There are other materials known for turning on people, but let’s admit that latex will never be leather! What the hell, I turn on myself when I am dressed in leather, so I can absolutely relate to people who have this as their fetish! And there are many leather fetishists out there since there are entire clubs dedicated to this thing.
And thanks to this, leather, and especially black leather, makes us think about sex instantly! Ladies, who doesn’t get a bit wet when seeing a hot guy dressed in a leather jacket? And boys how does a woman with a leather dress make you feel? Allow me to answer…hard!
Got Rope? – BDSM
From a leather fetish to BDSM is just a step, isn’t it? Now, BDSM has loads of sub-fetishes and this can only mean that there are thousands of fetishists who are not even similar to each other. However, the idea is one: we all like a bit of bondage. Or a lot. Everything depends on our desires, right?
So, whether you like to control or to be controlled, it doesn’t matter! BDSM is your fetish in both cases! At least you don’t have to feel ashamed. The world is full of people who enjoy a spank, baby!
It’s Only Kinky the First Time- Let’s Role Play!
Whether you daydream about a naughty maid, sexy secretary, or hot student scenes it is your business. But we have to admit that this is a fetish most of us have! It’s great to play with your imagination, jump in each other’s fantasies and have some fun!
So what if your partner fantasises about having sex with Little Red Riding Hood? Get dressed and play with the Big Wolf! Next time he might be the hot repairman you’ve been thinking about!
These are just some of the most well-known fetishes, but there are more where they came from! As mentioned, anything can become a fetish for somebody! So, what are your fetishes? Let us know by commenting below! Don’t be shy, nobody judges here!
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