When you’re having a rough day, there is no better way to perk you and your cock up than by sending some hot sexts to your partner. The anticipation of their reply will get your through a hard day at work, and when you see them later you’ll be so ready for sex that you will both want to just dive straight in.
If you aren’t very confident on your ability to send dirty texts, or you don’t know what the right things to say are, we have a handy guide for you here with the hottest sexts that you can send, and some pitfalls for you to avoid. Just keep reading to find out what they are!
When you are starting out with sexting, a great way to ease into it is by simply sending teasing messages. You don’t want to do this all the way through, as it can get very boring, but for the first few messages it is a good way to get your partner in the mood.
Start by saying things like “I can’t wait to see you later” and “there are so many naughty things that I want to do to you tonight”. These tempting and teasing phrases will get them in the mood in an instant, and will get them wondering just what will happen later on.
Another great way to tease them is by asking open questions. You could say something like “what would you do if I walked in on you in the shower?” to give them a chance to explain how they would react if you were there, and questions like “what is your favourite fantasy?” lets you get to know them a little better.
Let their imagination go
Their imagination ties in heavily to teasing, and so you want to take advantage of that. Get them thinking and having vivid thoughts about what you would do to them to turn them on and make them want to reply to you as quickly as possible to learn more.
Something as simple as “I want to slowly take off your clothes and begin to worship your hot body with my mouth” will make them wet as their mind pictures you crawling up to them and kissing your way down their body.
Another good way to get their imagination going is to leave suggestions about what you are doing while texting. They will obviously be picturing you playing with your rock hard dick, but leave them with no doubts in their mind about it. One of the hottest sexts you can send is something like “sorry for the mistakes. I’ve only got one hand free right now” as it makes it clear to them that you are thinking of them and it makes you want to touch yourself.
Reflect on the mind-blowing sex you’ve had
For those struggling to think of the right words to use, sometimes the best alternative is to just talk about what has already happened. Think of the greatest, hottest sex you have had with this person and describe it.
Start out with something like “remember that time I licked your wet pussy and fucked you on the kitchen counter?” to make them remember how they felt when it happened. As it is familiar, it will make sexting easier for the both of you.
From there you can then try something new. You could say “next time we’re in the kitchen, I’d love to push you against the freezer and take you from behind”. You can guarantee that the next time they are in the kitchen, they’ll think of that moment fondly.
The phrase “I want to fuck you” is a great, simple sext to send, but if you continue to keep things as short and sweet as that, you will find that you run out of interesting things to say very quickly. That is why you should be using very descriptive language.
Using words like “pussy”, “wet”, “cock” are good, as these words will instantly trigger a response in your partner and get them in the mood. “Fuck” and “cum” are also very direct and leave them with no doubt in their mind about just what you want to do.
Talk about how you love their tight as, and that their firm tits in your face turns you on. Talk about as many parts of their body as you can and don’t be afraid to use explicit language as things get heated. It will turn her on even more.
Ones to avoid!
Obviously, there are some things to avoid. If you have only just started sexting, telling her that you’re going to “bone her up the ass” after she’s said “hey” to you is not going to end well. You need to ease them into it slowly.
Another common mistake that people make is using innuendos. Those who use them usually do it because they don’t feel comfortable saying words like “pussy” in their sexts, but if you say that you want to butter her muffin or grease her tyres, she’s just going to be turned off. Just say it how it is instead of tiptoeing around the subject.
With innuendos come words like “vagina” and “penis”, which should definitely be avoided in saucy texts. You are trying to turn them on, not diagnose them with a vagina or penis, so stick to words like “dick”, “cock”, “pussy”, and even “cunt” if the mood strikes you.
Why not share your favourite sexts with us in the comment box below, or you could see what other hot messages people have sent on the Escort Norway forum? Tell us what sext is guaranteed to get you in the mood.
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