The Ten Weirdest Sexual Fantasies!

There has always been a lot of focus on male sexual fantasies and what they are hoping to try in the bedroom. But how well do you really know your partner? There’s a multitude of fantasies out there, and not just the common role plays and bondage. So here is an article that focuses on the fantasies that men have and may not want to admit to. These could spark some interesting discussions between you and your partner – and who knows what you’ll end up trying next.

10. Spectrophilia

So let’s kick off with one of the more interesting fantasies. Phantom seduction, or to you and I sex with a ghost, is apparently a common fantasy. Websites such as Phantom Seduction provide a portal for those to share their fantasies and in some cases their experiences. That’s right; some claim to have had experiences with the supernatural in a sexy way. One of these happens to be Ke$ha who later wrote a song about her ghostly fornications. The reality is likely to be that your man will spend more time fantasising about Ke$ha and her poltergeist-ly penetration than an invisible blow job.

9. Looner

What’s a looner I hear you ask? Put the strait jacket down and get going to your nearest Birthday supply store. Every man enjoys a good blow; yet some get their kicks from the thought of seeing your lips wrapped around a different type of latex.

8. Apotemnophilia

Popular fantasies usually involve a bit of pain and throbbing. Many like to be chained to beds, whipped, bitten, scratched – but have you ever been with someone who wants to be amputated? Next time you’re getting hot and heavy in the bedroom, why not erect a guillotine to really spice things up.

7. Agalmatophilia

This particular fantasy is based on the sexual attraction to a statue, garden sculptures, mannequin, doll or other similar objects. Fantasies can include sexual acts with the objects, having sex while watching the objects (or being watched by them) or transforming into one of the objects. Time to pay the garden centre a visit…

Woman deep in thought

6. Nyotaimori

Nyotaimori, more commonly known as body sushi, is the fantasy (and occasionally the practice) of eating sushi from the body of a naked woman. This practice is not merely for the enjoyment of men; Nantaimori refers to the same practice but using a male instead. In Japan, it is common to hire a model to perform this act. It is said that before becoming a sushi plate, the model is trained to lie down for hours without moving and to withstand prolonged exposure to the cold. All of this is to ensure the sushi remains in tip-top condition. Maybe the actual fantasy is more about getting a partner to remain silent for a length of time?

5. Voyeurism

This one may not be considered odd to many. But lots of people fantasise about hiding in wardrobes or peeking through people’s windows to watch others at it. And no matter how you try to dress this one up. It is still strange.

4. Cannibal Fantasies

These fantasies are self-explanatory. When he says he wants to eat you out, it might not be what you think. Some bring these fantasies to life through role playing. If you ever find yourself inclined to view such fantasies being acted out, visit the website Muki’s Kitchen. It features photographs of female models in a variety of kitchen scenarios; some are laid out on plates, spit roasted or in pans filled with vegetables with apples and carrots stuffed in all possible orifices.

Man in shock

3. Ponyplay

Ponyplay does not necessarily mean that your partner is fantasising about beastiality. It is in fact believed that the fantasy is built around the concept of returning to a primitive form and literally going at it like animals! The most common animals acted out are dogs, cats or horses. The animal could be fitted out with a saddle or some straps and the rider could use a whip to give it a bondage theme.

2. Emetophilia

How often do you hear the words “erotic” and “vomiting” being used in the same sentence? And no, not in a negative way; there are people who are aroused by the idea of vomiting or being vomited on. Dr. R. Stoller, a well-respected sexologist and psychiatrist, believed that both acts share similarities. Both are known to trigger the release of hormones that improve your state of being and both involve having fluids forced through a narrow tube and out of an orifice. That is pretty much where the similarities end. One major variation? Most of us enjoy sex. Most do not enjoy vomiting. Or so I have been led to believe. Some people have been known to compare being sick with having an orgasm, and some simply come when thinking of themselves, or someone they know vomiting. Related to the golden shower is its long-lost brother; the Roman shower. This out of the ordinary sexual act involves being aroused by the thought (or in some cases the action) of being vomited on. Try to digest that!

1. Pseudonecrophilia

….and we’ve save the best for last. Necrophilia? Really? Well no, not quite. This is in fact legal and doesn’t involve an actual corpse. The fantasies may not be as dark as you think. They could just be a fantasy based on a sexual act which is seen as taboo (I would say that is true for most of the fantasies mentioned in this article). When practiced in the bedroom; one partner remains quiet and very still – after the Nyotaimori training this should be a walk in the park. Some like to add an extra realistic touch by getting their partner to shower/bathe in cold water beforehand. Strangely (and thankfully)

I could not find any websites where such practices were shared and explored. Maybe some fantasies are best kept as just that?

Anna Smith

Anna Smith

Anna Smith entered the adult industry in 2015. From that moment on, she has become one of the foremost writers around, using her sex industry expertise to bring her readers many fun and fact filled articles.

She is most well known for her sex advice pieces, yet also has a major interest in sexual health and other serious issues. However, this is all done with a quirky style that is unmistakably hers.

When she isn't working, Anna is a fitness fanatic, and enjoys going away with her partner for various weekend trips.
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