Taking Sex Toys Out In Public

People are much more open about sex now than they used to be. Sure, some people are still embarrassed, but most of us aren’t ashamed to go “yes, I have sex… and it’s great”. Honestly, not a week goes by where I haven’t spoken to one of my girl friends about the fine art of fucking.
Sex toys in handbag

Are we taking it too far? Sure, it’s all well and good being able to talk to your closest friends about the deed, but others are actually going out in public with their sex toys. Do sex toys belong in the bedroom, or is it perfectly acceptable to take them out and about?

Vibrating bullets

One of the big appeals of bullet vibrators is that they are small and quite discrete. No-one knows you have one sitting in your drawer/pocket/handbag.

When I bought my first bullet vibrator, its size was one of the things that the assistant said appealed to most. She said it was the “perfect size” to pop into your mouth before going down on someone, and the vibrations would make them writhe around in ecstasy.

I don’t think she’d meant that I should take it out in public so that, if I was feeling horny, I could slip it under my skirt and get myself off.

However, that is what people are doing. They are taking the little vibrating bullets and using them in public, either under the tables at a restaurant or in the toilets of a shopping centre.

Sure, it can be a huge turn on to your partner to see you coming right in front of them, and man find the appeal of public sex in some way to be a huge boost. The risk of getting caught or being discovered is naughty and yet so tempting.

Wearable vibrators

If you think that vibrating bullets pretty much had the market covered when it comes to small sex toys you can take out in public, think again. A new toy has come out that is designed specifically to wear out in public, and is especially for the ladies.

The Vibease is not only a wearable vibrator, but it is also controlled using your smartphone. You can control the vibrations and when they happen, or you can hand control over to your partner for a little bit of fun.

It’s a costly product, coming in at around £80 (which is about 971 Norwegian krone and 112 euros), but many are seeing the appeal of it. Described as being “discreet” and “super quiet”, it is a great way to get yourself off without having to contort yourself into strange positions to hit that sweet spot.

It is also proving popular with couples in long distance relationships, as the connectivity means it can be controlled from pretty much anywhere. Imagine how hot your sexy webcam chat with them would be if you could control the vibrator in their pants?

That said, the toy is a hot pink colour (not exactly subtle) and, while you can simply slip in into your knickers and be on your merry way to orgasm, it will leave a lump and, in a quiet room, it is sure to be heard.
Sexy red heels and handcuffs

Taking sex toys out in public

For me, the idea of taking a sex toy out in public, no matter how small it is, is a little off-putting. I’d honestly feel very uncomfortable just taking it, never mind actually using it, and so for me it is a turn off.

However, many people feel that the risk involved makes it totally worth it. Look at how many stories there are out there of people having sex in public. The risk is a huge turn on to many, and that is why it so much fun for people to try.

How do you feel about taking sex toys out in public with you? Would you be tempted to buy a toy that promises discretion and pleasure at the same time, or would you simply err on the side of caution like I would and leave them in the bedroom?

You can see what others are saying about this over on the Escort Norway forum, or you could tell us what you think in the comment box below. Have you ever had sex in public or taken a toy out in public? Let us know if you have and what made you do it.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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