SEX ADVICE

There is nothing wrong with having good old-fashioned sex, but you know what they say, “ different strokes for different folks”. So, even though many people are profoundly happy with their vanilla sex life, some have a huge desire to play with their naked body in a diversity of ways.

We might try to give sex our all every time we get down to business, but sometimes we fall a little short of the mark. It could just be that we need a little extra help getting to the place where we are grabbing at the covers and moaning as our orgasm hits, and while your finger can be the perfect way to get there, sometimes it just isn’t enough.

To many people, giving an erotic massage involves putting on some sexy music, lighting some candles, and giving their partner a bit of a once over with your hands before you get down to business and start pleasuring them… but this isn’t the right way to do it, especially not if you want to drive them wild with desire. All this will do is get them a bit horny, which might be okay for you, but they would like something special instead.

Do you remember when you were 14 years-old and you’ve been asked out on a date by your gorgeous crush? You hung out at your favourite coffee shop where you tried your first cappuccino, and you bought her that cute ‘Hello Kitty’ purse that she wanted to get. When you took her back home and stood outside her front door, she started to stare at you with her ‘kiss me!’ eyes. She wasn’t wearing that cherry-flavored lip balm for no reason, and you didn’t brush your teeth 3 times before you left the house for the sake of having whiter teeth. She moved closer to you with a smile on her face, and then, you went in for the kill!

So, you’re with a beautiful woman, you’ve been together for quite some time and now you’re due to be a father in under a year! You get to hear your baby’s first kick, see your child wriggling around on the screen at one of the ultrasound sessions, and you get to see your partner developing that baby glow on her skin. But no matter how wonderful these experiences are when you’re preparing for your little one to see you for the first time…you find it difficult to control your cock when you’re feeling at your horniest.

For some people, talking dirty comes as naturally to them as breathing. They know exactly what to say to turn you on and they know just when to say it. They never seem stuck for the perfect thing to say, making it all seem very natural. Then there are some who have such difficulty with dirty talk that the mere suggestion of it makes them panic in case they say something so outrageous that their partner just gets up and walks away.

Whenever I encounter men who talk about their sexual preferences, I always ask them if they prefer either tits or ass. Most of the answers have always been the ass, maybe because they look so big and juicy, or that it provides them more cushion for the pushing.

Sharing is caring, right? Or at least this is what your parents taught you and what society keeps trying to make you understand…but do they also refer to your partner? Is it OK to have fantasies about sharing him or her with other people?

A surprisingly large number of people get fingering wrong. You might be wondering “how do you get something as simple as moving your fingers in and out of a sweet pussy wrong?” but that’s just the thing. People think it is very simple, when actually it takes a little more than just thrusting your fingers until they squeal to get them to come.

Have you ever had an ecstatic sexual moment? Have you ever felt deeply connected, forgetting all about the act of sex, the orgasm chase, the “intercourse as a leisure interest or as a way to restart after a long day”?