Sexy Role Play – A Guide

Most couples begin to trace the perimeters of role play when they need something to spice up their sex-life. Every couple goes through a sexual slump, where their sex life runs out of steam and role play is a great way to transform your sexual routine into something as exciting as a one night stand. Costumes, and sexual role play can really reignite the passion and we know just how to do it!

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Start With Sharing

This is the most important bit. Open up with your significant other about what makes you turned on. Is it the thought of a teacher pupil sex scene? Or do you love the thought of a fireman coming to your rescue? Or fancy a slutty nurse? Now is the time to reveal your deepest desires. You have probably tried every position going, but role play is more creative and therefore more arousing!

Have Fun With It

Time to go shopping together for some inspiration, this will really fire you both up. After you´ve discussed your desires you may have found that your partner´s desire matches yours, or that they have something different, even so, try it! It will excite you to see your partner turned on and you may discover a new fetish that pleases you both.

Go into your favourite lingerie shop and look at the outfits on offer, try them on for each other and judge your reaction. I guarantee you will be ready to get going even before you´ve left the shop! favourites include massage parlour skimpy outfits, nude butlers outfit, nurse, french maid, or you can be creative and completely make it up, inspired by a favourite scene from a movie. It´s your sex life and yours only, so have fun!

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Learning To Role Play

Role play has to be experienced in order to understand what it is exactly, it has to come from your own desires and imagination. One of the sexy things about role play is that in character, you could be anybody.

Choose a character that has always enticed you, something that gets your adrenaline pumping and your juices flowing! Popular ones include a slave and master, teacher and student, escort and client and fireman and damsel in distress. Before you even begin to shed your clothes and get down to it, learn to have conversations that turn each other on. Shed your inhibitions and get into character, you will make the sex better for both of you.

Enjoying Role Play

Enjoy the tease! It inst all about when you´re going to get to the penetration its about the underlying seductions at play, which enhance the sexual chemistry. Role play gives you something that other sexual endeavours do not – they give you a stage in which to play a game. In Sex And The City, which was one of the first programmes to champion women´s sexuality, Samantha dated an actor and engaged in a series of set up interactions. She met him at a bar and pretended to be in trouble with the law, him an inspector.

She pretended to be a housewife and him a burglar that comes in and rapes her. The both of them went completely wild and out there with their fantasies, resulting in a fantastic, open sex life. You may like to take a leaf out of their book and arrange to meet in public in character, then lead it back to your home, invigorating each other´s imaginations.

Role play is a great way to put some new life into your sex life. If you are single or want to try something new, there are escorts on our sites offering dress up and role play. Click to find out more!

Anna Smith

Anna Smith

Anna Smith entered the adult industry in 2015. From that moment on, she has become one of the foremost writers around, using her sex industry expertise to bring her readers many fun and fact filled articles.

She is most well known for her sex advice pieces, yet also has a major interest in sexual health and other serious issues. However, this is all done with a quirky style that is unmistakably hers.

When she isn't working, Anna is a fitness fanatic, and enjoys going away with her partner for various weekend trips.
Anna Smith

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