Sexting Could Lead To Better Sex!

If you have never found yourself enjoying a dirty sexting session with your hot and sexy partner then you are really missing out. Sexting is a lot of fun and you get to try out all of those naughty fetishes you want to try without getting nervous about taking things too far in person.

Sexy blonde woman on her phone on a bed

Last month we told you about the hottest sexts that you can send but recent studies have shown that, not only is sexting a lot of fun, but is can actually make sex better! So what are you waiting for? Grab that phone and start sending your partner those pervy pics now!

The sciency bit

Basically, the Drevel University Women’s Health Psychology Lab wanted to know about sexting and just what it does for us. Is it simply a way for us to try out our dirty fantasies over the phone and see how our partner reacts, or is it actually useful to our sex lives?

Well, the study looked at a total of 870 participants, ranging from 18 years old to 82 years old, so they think they have a pretty good idea about sexting! A total of 82 percent of the participants said that they had sexted in the last year, with 75 percent of those being in a committed relationship and 43 percent doing it as part of a casual relationship.

A lot of people said that they had sexted when they were at home (76.1 percent of participants) but there was almost 30 percent of them who said that work and “out and about” were also common sexting locations. Looks like the best way to motivate yourself for work is by sending a dirty text!

They also asked about how often they sexted, and found that “the more sexting they’re doing, the more satisfied they said they are with their sex lives”. So basically, when you are sexting you are helping to make sex even better for you. Time to start writing some saucy messages!

Why is sexting so good?

Sexting is great for a number of reasons. For a start, it is a quick and easy way to connect with someone, especially if you are far away. If you are working in Oslo, you might want to send a saucy message to one of the Rogaland escorts to get to know them a little better. It’s also works well if you aren’t sure whether you’ll click in the bedroom, as you can test how you respond to each other in a message.

However, one of the reasons that sexting is so popular is because a lot of people use it as a quick way to test how their partner responds to different things. If they have always wanted to try bondage and fear their partner’s reaction, they could casually slip it into conversation during a sexting session. “As I kiss my way down your body I use my hands to hold yours together above your head, making you completely mine”. If they don’t like it, it is easier to take that kind of rejection through a quick text, rather than in person. It also means that, should you take things too far, no physical damage has been done. After all, you aren’t there actually whipping them until they bleed, right?

Of course, the main reason that sexting is so popular is because it is fun and sexy, as the name suggests. If you miss your partner and they are at work, you can fire off a quick “I love the way your legs look in that skirt” and wait for the eager response back where they tell you how they’d slowly slide their skirt up to show you that they aren’t wearing any panties.

If you aren’t sold on trying out foreplay after this, we might have another great reason for you men to try it. It can actually allow you to skip foreplay altogether when you get into the bedroom. How you ask? If you have been sexting all day long, they will already be worked up into a frenzy and will probably jump onto your cock as soon as you show it to them. That is a huge win!

What do you say?

In our the hottest sexts that you can send blog article last month we described some of the great things that you can say to get them in the mood, but if you don’t feel comfortable with those words or phrases, what can you do instead?

First, you need to start off slowly. Don’t go from “how are you?” in one text to “I wish I could bend you over and fuck you from behind” in the next one. Just like sex, you need to ease into it. Start by saying how much you miss them and how sexy they looked the last time you saw them. You can tell them that you would love to have kissed their neck gently and let things move naturally on from there.

Another thing you need to do is be wary of the length. Far too often, people think that they need to write paragraphs and paragraphs about the kind of dirty things they would do to their partner, but that might leave them thinking “do I have to respond with that much?” or “that’s too much”. If you find that you are sending it as multiple texts, it is time to cut down.

The most important thing is to try and stop it from being one sided. It should never be one person doing all of the work and the other replying with “mmm” or “yes, just like that”, because that’s a quick way to boredom. Give them something to respond to and you will find your sexting session getting hotter and hotter. Do you enjoy sexting? Have you got some great tips to share? Visit the Escort Norway forum or leave a comment in the box below.

Lara Mills
Follow me

Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
Lara Mills
Follow me

Latest posts by Lara Mills (see all)

One thought on “Sexting Could Lead To Better Sex!”

Please log in here to leave a comment.