Sex Worries That Women Don’t Care About

Everyone has sex worries that bother them at those crucial moments, and it can really ruin your fun. You’ll find that you get so worked up over the tiny little worries you take into bed with you that those worries end up becoming a reality and leaving you feeling terrible. It’s a real shame, and there are so many different sex worries that plague us that it can be hard to stop ourselves from thinking of them and just concentrate on having fun in the moment.

A man attempting to deal with his sex worries

If you are a man dealing with issues like premature ejaculation, worrying about it happening often just makes it worse. We all worry about being judged in bed over the things that shouldn’t matter, and this can turn what should be a passionate night of fun into something awkward and disappointing. So, we here on Escort Norway take a look at the common sex worries we often face in bed and tell you just why women don’t care about them. Hopefully it’ll ease your mind to know that others are dealing with the same issues.

Premature ejaculation

Premature ejaculation is probably the biggest sex worry for many in the bedroom. Whenever people talk about the things that worry them when it comes to sex, premature ejaculation is right there at the top.

When you are dealing with premature ejaculation, you often become your own worst enemy. You worry that you are going to come too soon and ruin the fun. This worry then combines with the fear of not getting your partner to orgasm before you do, and so you’ll go harder and faster than you need to try and compensate. Often this backfires and leaves you feeling as though you just didn’t do enough to please them.

As we’ve said earlier, worrying just makes the situation worse, but you will find you panic more because you think the person you’re with will care. Honestly, most people won’t be too bothered by it if they can tell that you have been trying really hard not to come. They’ll care even less about it if you have been taking regular breaks to give them oral in an attempt to get them to orgasm.

“I hate my body”

Everyone has those body issues that are hard to shake. You might feel that your gut is a little too larger for a woman to find sexy. You might worry that your face isn’t as clean shaven as it should be to turn your sexy lady on.

The problem with sex worries involving the body is that we will get so worked up about our appearance that we don’t feel sexy. When we don’t feel sexy, we won’t act confident in ourselves. This on its own can be a huge turn off for many people, as confidence is often the most sexy thing you can wear.

Our negative body issues are easy to see, particularly when it comes to sex. We might shift around a lot in bed to try and hide the parts we are ashamed of, and this makes it seem like we just aren’t interested in sex with this other person.

That isn’t what we want to do, so instead you should work on simply getting lost in the moment. When you’re in bed with the right person, their sexy body will be enough to distract you from your own issues, and the fact that you are having some hot and passionate sex will help you forget your sex worries.

Skills in the bedroom

Not everyone is amazing in bed. The movies, TV shows, and porn films might make it seem as though getting a woman to orgasm is as simple as looking at her and winking, but it really isn’t.

It takes a little more effort, and while you might have been looking online for some tutorials to help improve your skills, you’ll find there is really only one thing that you can do to make yourself better at sex. That, my friends, is to get out there and try some different moves.

Most people are more than happy to experiment in the bedroom, as long as you are actually concerned about what is and isn’t working for them. In fact, a lot of people will appreciate your honesty if you say “I want to try going down on you”, so consider being brave and admitting that you don’t have a lot of skill in bed.

Remember, every person is different. What works for one person in bed might not work for another. It isn’t a case of one lick of the clit gets everyone screaming, so it is worth trying out new things in the bedroom anyway.

Common sex worries

There are plenty of other sex worries that we could talk about. You might think that your cock isn’t big enough to satisfy someone, or that it is so small people feel offended when they look at it. Size really isn’t that big of a deal in the bedroom, as the important thing is whether you can get them to orgasm.

Another huge concern involves the way that we orgasm and, in particular, our orgasm face. It isn’t something we control, as our entire body reacts to the pleasure, so if someone is bothered by it, just ignore it and find someone who won’t be.

We all have sex worries that bother us in the bedroom, but the important thing is that most of us are good at hiding it or dealing with it. This can make the difference between a great time in bed and a shit time.

Have you got some sex worries that have been plaguing your mind for a while? Perhaps you simply want to help people overcome their issues? Let us know what you think either by heading to the Escort Norway forum and joining in the discussion there or by talking to us in the comment box below.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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2 thoughts on “Sex Worries That Women Don’t Care About”

  1. Cumming for tidlig er min største bekymring, men du sier kvinner ikke har noe imot. Kanskje, men jeg vet 2 jenter som ikke var fornøyd.
    Jeg kan vare 10 minutter, kanskje 20 minutter i soverommet, men noen ganger jeg cum for tidlig. Jeg tror mange kvinner har ikke noe imot, men få gjør og hater dette.

  2. Having a disability with my legs, some girls don’t like it, but I have noticed that most girls do not mind it at all.
    When having sex, many of the girls enjoy going on top, I can go on top, but my legs start to hurt after a short while.
    every girl just men are different, so you shouldn’t feel bad about yourself as there is always a few people out there who will like you.

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