Are Sex Toys In Bed A Distraction?

Sex toys are a fantastic way to spice up a boring and repetitive sex life, as they inject a little bit of fun and adventure into the bedroom. It is no wonder so many couples go shopping together for the latest toy!
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When you take a toy into the bedroom, however, it can be distracting as we will instead use the toy to bring pleasure, instead of using our own skills to do it. Are sex toys too much of a distraction in the bedroom, or are they a great tool that we should all be using?

A tool to help get sexual pleasure

Since a lot of women own a sex toy anyway, it isn’t much of a stretch to imagine using it in the bedroom. They get pleasure from using it on their own, so why not see if you can use it together differently?

Vibrators and bullets can be fun to use while you are having sex to tease her more. The right toy pressed against her clitoris mid-thrust can make her have an explosive orgasm, which is all the more fun for you.

If your partner doesn’t own any sex toys just for her, then you may wish to go looking for toys together. There are now a wide range of toys designed specifically for couples to use, either as part of foreplay or during sex.

Those for during foreplay are meant to make it easier to get you both excited and raring to go, while those for during sex all have different abilities, from getting your partner to orgasm to holding you back that little bit longer.

Sex toys in the bedroom

Using sex toys in the bedroom can be a lot of fun, if you know how to do it properly!

It is always best to sit down with your partner and talk about what you want first. Most people will be put off if you suddenly stop and pull out an 8 inch vibrator, so at least give them a little warning about what it is you want to try in bed.

You can use them as part of your foreplay, as stated earlier. To do that, a good thing to use is a bullet vibrator. They are small and so you can easily use them on the intimate areas of the body. A friend once recommended that you can hold a waterproof one in your cheek when performing oral to give that buzzing sensation, but if you do this be very careful!

As for sex toys, a cock ring can enhance all that you are feeling while thrusting into your partner, and if you have trouble holding back this can be a great device to use! Some even have little vibrators attached to give your partner extra pleasure as you have sex.Black and white picture of woman on top of man

Lazy sex

As great as this all sounds, taking toys into the bedroom can make you extremely lazy. Why bother with all of the thrusting of fingers and kissing of necks when you can just whip out a vibrator and use that?

Sex toys should be used as an additional aid to foreplay and sex, not as a replacement to you.

They can also be quite distracting, as instead of pleasuring your partner in different ways you simply let the toy do it and focus on your own pleasure. Sex should be about both partners, not just you.

Instead, try a new position and talk to your partner about their fantasies. You might just find something else new and exciting to try instead.

Do you find sex toys to be a huge distraction in bed? I don’t often use sex toys in the bedroom because, for me, the focus is on the toys instead of my partner. What about you? Let me know by leaving a comment in the box below, or you can go to the Escort Norway forum, where the growing community there are talking about this hot topic.

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Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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