Sex Myths You Should Forget About Now

Just like all of us, you grew up in a society that prepared you for life, by giving you a nice set of beliefs about sexuality. You’ve been carefully thought what being a man means, what being a woman involves as well as how your love, and how your sexual relationships should be. You’ll have been told many things as sex facts, but they might actually be sex myths.

Woman seducing man, trying to bust some sex myths

In addition, what you’ve been told and taught during your childhood and while you were growing up, is completed by what you see in movies, commercials or TV shows. This is how you end up knowing everything about sex and accept the “truths” you’ve been told without asking too many questions.

Fortunately, some of the things you or I know about sex are just myths. Now, you can’t blame the people who presented them as real. They were victims of the lack of knowledge, just like you. So, let’s debunk some of the damn sex myths and liberate ourselves from the old wives’ tales we lived with.

The Only Goal Is Orgasm

If you are one of the people who only think about the orgasm when having sex…you should stop and think again. I am not going to tell you that orgasms are not important. Oh, we all like orgasms!

But, there are things that happen before that short climaxing moment. And because you only concentrate on those seconds, you miss some amazing minutes man.

Being present during the whole encounter is important, exploring each other’s bodies, as well as likes and dislikes can be incredible adventures. You can have fun and feel an immense pleasure if you forget about the orgasm until you actually have it.

Continuously running after climaxing can really hurt your sexual life and destroy your satisfaction.

Men Are More into Sex and They Think About Intercourse Every 7 Seconds

Many women complain that they are objectified by men. Well, men are also considered as preoccupied with the meaningful matters as cave men used to be, aren’t they? It is known that instead of seeing the spiritual implications of a relationship they see the…big butts and they cannot even lie about it, right?

Well, that is far from being true. Men are human beings who are not always in the mood to act like horny rabbits, and who sometimes can’t see the big walking boobs because work, bills or other things are on their mind. So yes, they also have other toughs, besides dreaming about juicy pussies every 7 seconds.

And to be honest, both men and women use sex as a form of validation in the 21 century, so here goes this myth!

The Older You Get the Less Important Sex Is

Sex is important for every adult, in order to have a healthy life, physically, as well as emotionally.

I know that Hollywood does not show us too many old people loving each other (unless it’s an old man with a young lady) but growing older doesn’t mean locking yourself in a room and not enjoying life’s pleasures.

Yes, sexual thoughts can be blocked by worries, depression, lack of communication but growing older doesn’t mean you become inactive. So please, don’t! This is one of the sex myths that can really ruin your sex life if you believe it.

The Bigger the Better… or Not!

“Size matters” is one of the sentences that killed men’s courage over the years. Also, it’s one of the things that destroyed their interest in becoming better in bed. Well, unfortunately having a big penis doesn’t mean you don’t need to perform in a certain way. Actually, attention, sexual enthusiasm and having the moves like Jagger are the things that make a woman happy in bed.

At the same time, protection, care, love and some other unmeasurable qualities make her love you. So muscles don’t count when it comes to love, respect, and even pleasure. And definitely, the size of your penis is not a barometer for manhood.

If you don’t believe me, or you believe this is one of the sex myths that is actually true, ask a specialist! He will tell you that the part of the vagina that has the arousing sensory nerves is only 4 centimeters long and it is the external one-third. So, yeah men don’t need to make their thing bigger, but to increase the attention they offer to those 4 centimeters.

Pulling Out Is a Safe Method to Prevent Unwanted Pregnancy

I am pretty sure you heard about coitus interruptus, or, at least, you’ve seen porn starts pulling their penis out when having an orgasm. Though it might seem that if the sperm is out, the baby can’t be in, things are a bit different.

The main issue is that many men are not able to take it out on time. Before blaming them, think about it: they are about to climax, girls! I wouldn’t do it right either!

Also, you know that there is some pre-ejaculatory liquid involved in every sex story and it might contain sperm. So, yes coitus interruptus can get a woman pregnant. Should I also mention the risk of getting an STD brought by unprotected sex?

Men Cheat More than Women

Now, this is something relative. If cheating is only “penis in vagina”, you can say it’s right. However, we have to be honest (at least now, when we are hiding behind our screens) and admit that cheating is also kissing, licking and being fingered by your co-worker while he’s playing with your boobs. Yes, you might tell yourself that there was no sex involved, but girl, you cheated!

So, myth debunked: women cheat about as much as men.

Condoms Steal Your Fun Away!

I’ve heard so many people saying they never use condoms even if they are having casual sex. Are condoms stealing your fun away? What if I told you that not using condoms can steal your health away? Let’s see you having fun when you’re sick!

The issue is not the condom but the fact that almost 70 percent of men by the wrong size or shape of a condom. So, don’t you think it’s time to become responsible and learn about the dangers of unprotected sex, as well as how to select condoms?

Sex without protection is dangerous even if you are careful when choosing your partners. The disease doesn’t come from unclean people, but from germs carried from one to another. Why do you think escorts insist on using condoms? It’s nothing personal!

They know you are clean (unless you aren’t, of course), that you showered and you put on nice cologne. But when having multiple partners putting yourself and them in danger is unnecessary. So, you better put a hat on it every time!

Debunking sex myths

Now, these are just some of the sex myths we grew up with. Do you agree with them? Do you have more to add to this list? Please share your thoughts with us by commenting in the box below or by starting a conversation on our escort forum. Sharing is caring, isn’t it?

Anna Smith

Anna Smith

Anna Smith entered the adult industry in 2015. From that moment on, she has become one of the foremost writers around, using her sex industry expertise to bring her readers many fun and fact filled articles.

She is most well known for her sex advice pieces, yet also has a major interest in sexual health and other serious issues. However, this is all done with a quirky style that is unmistakably hers.

When she isn't working, Anna is a fitness fanatic, and enjoys going away with her partner for various weekend trips.
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3 thoughts on “Sex Myths You Should Forget About Now”

  1. The older I have gotten, the more sex I feel I need.
    I feel like I need sex all the time, I am always playing with myself if I do not get sex.

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