Rimming: The Do’s And Don’ts Of Eating Ass

Whether you want to believe it or not, life is all about the ass. As that infamous quote says, we are either kicking it, busting it, trying to get a piece of it, or kissing it. And boy, do we love kissing it. Eating ass, otherwise known as rimming, is one of the most popular sex acts at the moment, and we cannot get enough of it. If you are a big ass fan, then you’ll love nothing more than sticking your head between their cheeks and going to town.

A sexy woman poses for a good rimming

However, before you go diving in, there are a few things that you need to know. When it comes to rimming, there are a few do’s and don’ts you should read about to make sure your partner has a great time… and that you enjoy yourself while you do it!

Do: enjoy some foreplay

Rimming is a lot of fun, but as with any sex act, it is important to build up to it. You want to make sure that your partner is relaxed and at ease, which will make it more enjoyable for them. It will also help you to get access to their sweet spot for a good licking.

While some might love the idea of you eating their ass, they might feel a bit tense about it… especially if they have never done it before. This is why a slow, sensual, and erotic massage is a great way to start. You can get them lying on their front and relaxing for you. You can slowly run your hands over their body. When the time is right, you can slip your head between their cheeks and kiss their ass.

Don’t: rush straight to the ass

A mistake that people often make with rimming is that they will go straight for the ass. For some reason, they see eating ass as part of the foreplay, rather than the grand finale. They want to get straight to it, which can be bad for a number of reasons.

For a start, your partner might not be ready for it yet. Their ass will not be relaxed enough for you to really get your tongue in there, and forcing it will cause problems. People will also then move onto other areas of the body with their tongue, which is bad for hygiene. We’ll cover this in more detail later on.

Do: talk positions

There are all sorts of different positions that you can enjoy for this fun and kinky sex act, and it is a good idea to talk to your partner about the best before you start having your fun. If they have had it before, they might know a great position to help them open up. If not, you can talk about some positions with them.

One of the most popular positions for rimming is doggy style. Your partner will get on their hands and knees so that you can eat them out. It lets you get right in there. However, some like to go with other positions. If you have given them a massage, you can easily slip down to their ass. It will make the whole thing seem natural, and spreading their legs in this position is really kinky.

Don’t: forget hygiene

We briefly mentioned hygiene earlier. When you are enjoying a little rimming, you need to remember that this is the ass. The ass can have a lot of bacteria there. This bacteria is fine where it is, so don’t go licking their ass and then trying to eat their pussy or suck their cock.

This can cause infections and problems for your partner. Definitely not what you had in mind when you started eating their ass! If you do want to go back and forth between them, invest in some dental dams. This will help you keep it as good clean fun, instead of an itchy and potentially painful experience.

Do: take it slow

When you are eating out a sexy woman’s pussy or sucking on a guy’s rock hard cock, you don’t dive straight in, going hard and fast immediately. You take your time. You explore their body, enjoying the taste of them on your tongue. You take your time to turn them on, making them beg for it, and then you go to town on them.

It is the same with the ass. Spreading their legs and doing your best to insert your tongue as far inside of them as possible isn’t going to do you any favours. Instead, take your time. Tease them by gently rimming their asshole and making them beg for more.

Don’t: be afraid to get in there

Teasing is all well and good, but you are here for one reason. You want to eat that ass. This means that, as the tension builds, you are going to need to get in there.

Don’t hold back. When you have spent a little time getting to know their ass and want to know more, slip your tongue into their hole. If you are concerned about how dirty the ass is, a good blast with the shower jet and some warm, soapy water solves a lot of problems. This means that you can really get in there and enjoy their sweet hole.

What we love about rimming

Rimming is such a naughty and sexy thing to do, which is why we love it so much. People see it as dirty, while we see it as one of the hottest sex acts you can enjoy. It can bring your partner a lot of pleasure and will leave them breathless. So why wouldn’t you do it?

Have your enjoyed a good rim job before? Do you prefer to give or receive? We want to hear from you, so let us know by leaving a comment in the box below.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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