The Right Way To Lick Pussy

Plenty of guys out there profess to be experts when it comes to eating a woman out. However, the number of unsatisfied ladies out there tells us that there aren’t enough men out there skilled enough to lick pussy the way we women really want you to.

A sexy ladies lies on a bed, waiting for someone to lick pussy the right way

That doesn’t mean that you don’t know how to do it. However, you might be looking for a few more tips to make sure you can lick pussy the right way. Here on the Escort Norway blog, we tell you some of the best tips to make sure you give her a great time with nothing more than your mouth.

Lick all of the pussy

When you look at a pussy you might feel confused. They can look very different from each other, and that means that finding the spots to make her weak at the knees is difficult.

However, when you are down there, with your eyes fixed on her cunt, you shouldn’t think of yourself as being lost. Instead, think of yourself as an explorer, venturing into new territory.

Try weaving your tongue in between every single fold of her pussy. Maybe use a few swift flicks of the tongue to get her off. Try different things to see what works for her and, when you find it, stick with it for a little while. You might be surprised by the results.

The broad stroke

Men often get tired when eating a lady out because they use their tongue in the wrong way. They will make it stiff, which is good for a few minutes but not much more. This can leave you feeling tired, and since most women need more than a few minutes to get off, she’ll be disappointed.

Instead, try to relax. Keep your tongue long and flat, and don’t be afraid to get in there. You can put your face right in her cunt if it helps you lick her clit in the right way.

By keeping your tongue broad, you can lick pussy with nice, long strokes. It will help to warm her up and touch more of the sensitive areas, as a wide tongue covers more area than a stiff and pointy one.

This also works well because you don’t get tired as easily. You can go for longer, which means that you are much more likely to get your sexy lady to orgasm. You might even take her to multiple orgasms just by relaxing your tongue and really working it into her folds

Just the tip

That said, you can use the tip well to make her squeal beneath you. However, when people decide to use just the tip, they’ll make their tongue rock hard and long. As we’ve said before, this is going to tire you out a lot quicker.

Instead, you can get up close and do little licks with the very tip of your tongue. You will only need the tip for those more precise strokes, and because you are focusing on one area, you’ll have her screaming your name in no time.

If you find that your tongue is starting to ache, you might be keeping your tongue too stiff. Try to relax everything but the tip and see if that helps you at all.

It isn’t all about licking

Okay, so we have titled this “the right way to lick pussy”, but eating a woman out isn’t just about licking her cunt. There are a number of different things for you to do, one of which is sucking.

When someone goes down on your cock, they’ll suck at the same time. If they just bobbed their head, it wouldn’t feel as good. The same can be said for ladies, so put your lips to good use.

Gentle sucking is the key here. You might be tempted to dive straight in for the clit and suck as though your life depends on it, but the clit is extremely sensitive. As Anna explains in her four things you should know about the clit blog, it was created purely for pleasure. There are a lot of nerve endings to play with. This means that, if you go too hard or fast, you can actually make her scream in pain… which is not what you want.

Instead, go slowly and gently. See what she likes and responds best to, before adjusting the pressure to the sounds she is making. If she really likes it, you’ll know.

Keep going!

The key to making a woman feel great with just your tongue is that, when you find something that works, you stick with it. Too often men will notice one thing that works well and think “you know what? I’m going to try something different”.

If you know that you do this, stop. Yes, variety is the spice of life, but if she is getting close to orgasm and you stop what you are doing to try something else, she can lose the orgasm.

It sounds pretty dramatic, but it is also quite stressful for her. By all means, take her to the very edge of orgasm and keep her there, but don’t make her lose it. It can be difficult for a lot of women to reach orgasm anyway, so help her out and stick with what works when you find it.

The right way to lick pussy varies

Every vagina is different. You might lick pussy one way that works great, only to move on to another and discover that the tips and tricks you used before aren’t working anymore.

When that happens, it is time to shake things up. You could even be really bold and ask your partner what it is that they like the most about it. They might tell you that you lick pussy best with little strokes, or that they love when you suck on their clit.

Don’t be afraid of asking questions in the bedroom, as this is the best way to find out what works for them. Got some other great tips you want to share? Use the comment box below to join in the discussion.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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One thought on “The Right Way To Lick Pussy”

  1. Do not use too much pressure on her clit, it can hurt her.
    Lick slowly and softly in a circular motion and you will make her smile all the time.

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