Quickies are great for you guys. You take your lunch break, run over to meet your sexy lady, and then fuck her hard and quick before running back to work as quick as you can to avoid being late.
Having a quickie is fun and quick, but quickies aren’t really made for us women. Instead, it lets you men get off quickly and go back to your normal business while leaving us wanting more.
However, you can change that. There are some easy things you can do to not only make it fun, but to also get them off!
Sex in the bedroom can be incredibly boring. Sorry, fellas, but there are only so many things you can do on a mattress, and if you’re going for a quickie the bedroom is possibly the worst place you can go.
Quickies are, as the name suggests, quick. You aren’t meant to take the time to strip off and get comfortable in the bedroom. It is supposed to be a case of wham, bam, thank you ma’am, where you get it on wherever you can as soon as possible.
Think about the rooms closest to the door of your partner’s place. Do they have a long corridor and stairs you can use to your advantage, or is there a kitchen nearby you can go for your quickie?
Once you get to your partner’s place, don’t spend ages trying to figure out where the best place is to have sex. Just choose a room and do it, but make sure it isn’t the bedroom. Having sex in a room that you don’t usually have sex in can be a huge turn on for you and your partner, making it a lot easier for them to come.
When it comes to quick sex, men tend to take control. After all, the pleasure is mostly all for them, so why wouldn’t they? They can control the speed, the depth, and just when they finish before they rush off to do whatever it was they were doing before.
Women tend to be made submissive when it comes to quickies, but that shouldn’t be the case. Instead, you should take the time to think about the positions you have sex in.
Some positions are better for women than men. If you are insisting on having sex in the bedroom, allowing your partner to be on top is a good way to go. Not only can she control the depth of each thrust, but she can slow things down if she needs to. You can also rub her clit and squeeze her boobs while you’re on your back, which will help to get her off.
Having sex in another room? Why not get your partner to bend over while you lift up her skirt and fuck her from behind? This position still gives you the chance to reach around and rub her clit, and the angle of your thrusting could be perfect for hitting her g-spot and making her come.
Talk about it!
Far too often in the bedroom we forget that sometimes we just need to talk about things. Instead, we are silent and expect our partner to instantly know what we want.
If you are able to talk openly about sex with your partner, then asking them about what they need to help them enjoy your quickie should be easy for you. However, if you find it difficult this step can be difficult.
While having sex, ask what they like. If she is moaning particularly loudly when you are fucking her hard from behind, say something like “do you like me fucking you?” and listen to their response. If it is positive, keep doing it.
If not, you might want to change your strategy. Are you giving them enough attention to get them off? Can you do something else to get them to come before you? Do what you can to help them, and if it doesn’t work talk about it afterwards so you know for in the future.
Concentrate on what is happening
Quickies don’t take too long, and usually don’t last longer than fifteen minutes. However, sometimes you find yourself thinking of all of the things you have to do still, especially if you have come from work and have lots to do when you go back.
Needless to say, you should not be thinking of anything else but sex when you’re having a quickie. Push those thoughts about reports you have to complete and calls you have to make from your mind and concentrate on what is happening.
Having trouble doing that? Dirty talk can help a lot. If you bat dirty comments back and forth between you and your partner, you will find yourself concentrating on what is happening more, instead of worrying about work.
If that doesn’t work, you might need to take the time to talk with your partner about it. It may be that you are too worried about being back late for work, so why not arrange a quickie when you don’t have the pressure of rushing off somewhere afterwards? You still get to have fun but without risking your job. Win/win.
Sorry men, but for we women it can take a while to get us in the mood. Some men only need to see a naked woman and they are standing to attention, but for women getting the juices flowing can take a little longer.
Just because we aren’t dripping wet doesn’t mean we aren’t in the mood. Sometimes, it can take a while for those juices to get flowing, and so we need a helping hand.
Lube is great in these situations and an ideal thing to use when you are wanting a quickie. It can help speed things up, while also allowing us to enjoy it a little more. Since you can buy individual packets, you can even keep them with the condoms ready to go for those hot occasions.
Do you prefer to take your time with sex or are you more than happy to have a quickie? Is it better to have long and slow sex or do you like fast and hard sex? You can let us know, whichever way you swing, by leaving a comment in the box below. Alternatively, you could check out what others are saying over on the Escort Norway forum. If you’ve got some other tips you think people need to enjoy quickies more, share them here.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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