A lot of people say that “size doesn’t matter”. In fact, this is something we often see on the Escort Norway forums. Clients ask if size is really that important in the bedroom, and a lot of women come forward saying it isn’t.
As a woman, I can agree with that. However, for a long time I called bullshit on the people who said that. I’d had sex before with guys not very well endowed and honestly? It was horrific. I just wanted it to be over so I could move on and have the kind of hot passionate sex I wanted.
One of the last guys I dated had a small cock. As soon as I saw it I thought “oh no, not again”. Then he shocked me with what he could do with it. I learned that size really doesn’t matter, if you know how to use it properly. So, here are some tips on making the most of your size.
Learn other skills
A remarkable amount of men think that thrusting your fingers/tongue/cock into her pussy rapidly will lead to orgasm. They think that, no matter what size, you will orgasm from the jackhammer treatment.
Don’t do that. Treat her with respect and learn some other skills to help get her to orgasm. Having a healthy sex life shouldn’t focus on penetration alone, and if you manage to get her off a few times before you have sex, she will be eternally grateful.
Ask her what she would really like you to do to get her to cum, then do it. Get her to explain what feels best for her while you’re doing it, and keep at it until you get the desired result.
Pillows aren’t just fun for a sexy pillow fight or for sleeping on. They can also help to get her in just the right position to make it feel like you’re filling her pussy with each thrust you make.
If you like to be on top, you should definitely be using pillows. Pile them up on the bed and get her to lie so her hips are raised on top of them.
Not enough to make her feel really good? Adjust her legs. Get her to keep her legs together while her ass lies perched on top of the pillows and thrust into her this way. Not only will the position help you go nice and keep, but by keeping her legs together it will feel even better.
The right position
Finding that perfect position can save a lot of embarrassment for both of you, especially if you can find a few that work. You want some variety, something that will allow you both to take turns at being in control and dominant, which is why there are a few positions that are ideal for those who are challenged in terms of size.
The positions that work best tend to be those that allow the right angle of the vagina. Rear-entry works well, as does girl on top leaning backwards. These positions allow you both to be in control, while still creating that delicious friction to makes you feel even bigger.
What do you do to make yourself feel even bigger to your partner? Have you ever experienced problems in this area, or is it a problem you have never encountered? You can share your thoughts and your favourite sex tips right here by leaving a comment in the box below. You could ever visit the Escort Norway forum and tell us what you think there.
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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