Is Squirting The Same As An Orgasm?

Ahh, the elusive female squirt. It is a pretty controversial topic to talk about, and people are pretty divided on it. There are plenty of people out there happy to watch squirting videos on porn sites and use the tips there to try and get their partner to squirt, but there are also people who believe that the “squirts” we see in porn are nothing more than water placed in the pussy to fake a squirt, or they are convinced that the woman is just pissing on them.

Now, there is nothing wrong with watersports, as long as the person getting the pee on them actually wants it and asks for it, but if you are trying to disguise it as a squirt, there’s a problem. However, some people have recently been suggesting that the female squirt isn’t piss at all, but that it also isn’t an orgasm, and they believe that many women can actually squirt without ever reaching orgasm. So, is an orgasm the same as squirting, and what do you need to know to get your partner to squirt?

A woman experiencing an intense orgasm

What is the female ejaculation?

To a lot of people, the female ejaculation really is the equivalent of piss, and if they were to encounter it in the bedroom we are pretty sure that they would freak out and panic, thinking that their partner has just decided to pee on them.

Of course, no-one is entirely sure what the female ejaculate actually is. Sure, there have been so many different studies into it, but no-one has been able to quite pin down what it contains.

To a lot of people, they simply refer to it as the “female discharge” or “female sperm”, and believe that the build up of fluid in the pussy can lead to it coming out at speed… hence why it is believed that pretty much all women are able to squirt.

The actual squirt itself is said to come from the urethral opening, which is why the squirt is sometimes confused with piss. After all, they both come from the same place, but the key difference is that the squirt is usually a thick, creamy liquid, which is why most believe that a squirt is definitely really.

How to make a woman squirt

There are so many guides online that aim to teach you exactly how to make a woman squirt, but the problem is that a lot of the guides vary in the key tips that they use. If you look at written guides and then compare them to video guides, you’ll notice that there are a lot of differences between them, and that can make it difficult to pin down exactly what it is that you need to do to get your sexy lady to squirt all over you as you finger her tight pussy.

Before you start, you’ll want to make sure your partner is up to the challenge and is also well hydrated. If so, make sure she goes to the toilet first, as many women describe the feeling before the squirt as similar to having a full bladder, and you want to make sure it is as comfortable and fun for her as you can possibly make it. While she is in the bathroom getting herself ready, prepare lots of dry and clean towels, lying them on the bed and have some others to hand, just in case you need them. It might just get messy if you do things properly.

You need to get her turned on and aroused, perhaps by getting her to orgasm once or twice before you get started. You can do this however you see fit, whether it is simply by licking her clit to orgasm or by finger fucking her. You want her to be nice and wet, but you should also have some lube to the side to help things along, should you need it. When she is nice and wet and ready for you, slide two fingers into her cunt and rub them vigorously on the front wall of her pussy, as though you are trying to hit her clit from inside. This is where her g-spot is, and it is key in making her squirt.

After plenty of stimulation in this way, you should feel the g-spot swelling a little. This means you are on the right track, and then all you have to do is keep going and see what happens. During a squirt she can produce between 30ml and 150ml, which is why you need the towels to hand! Afterwards give her the chance to relax, as the intensity might have taken it out of her.

Is it the same as an orgasm?

So, while most believe that woman can squirt, plenty also believe that a squirt is the same as an orgasm, but looking around online and experiencing it for yourself will tell you that the two aren’t the same. You might be lucky enough to get your partner squirting as she orgasms, but for most that isn’t how it happens.

A lot of women find that they squirt and then later have an orgasm, so if you find that your partner has squirted and made a lovely mess for you, you might want to continue stimulating her until she has had her orgasm and begs you to stop. That will make sure she is properly satisfied.

That said, there are some lucky women out there who managed to orgasm every time that they squirt, so if you are one of those women or you are lucky enough to have given a woman a squirting orgasm, you should share your tips with others.

You can use the comment box below to give us your best tips, or you could simply join in the discussion on the Escort Norway forum and see what others think of the squirting orgasm.

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Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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