Is Sex With the Ex a Good Idea?

Having sex with the ex is something you most have tried at least once in their life. There are many reasons why you choose to call your ex for a booty call or to answer to your ex’s late naughty call. It doesn’t matter if you call her because you’re familiar, you answer because you’re not in the mood to impress anybody or you know she’s always available. Yes, sex with the ex is easy and convenient, but sometimes, in the long term, it can bring more negative aspects than positive ingredients to your life.

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So, no matter how many reasons to call your ex-partner for a quickie you find, there are always as many motives to find somebody new instead!

Sex with the Ex Can Be Very Confusing!

Most people call their ex when they are drunk, nostalgic, bored, upset or they just miss them. Wanting to see somebody familiar when in trouble and missing a person you shared your life with are two very understandable situations. However, calling them is wrong for both of you. Sex with the ex can be very, but very confusing.

It can be amazing, and this make is it even more confusing for people who want to move forward. In addition, it can be extremely disappointing and in this case you might begin questioning your choices.

Just keep in mind that this person is not your partner anymore. Think about the reasons why you broke up and move on. At the same time, if you can’t find any good reason why you stopped seeing each other, you might want to talk about it, not “sleep together on it”.

You Want Good Sex…But Not Unhealthy Encounters

Maybe your former lover was extremely good in bed, but you are not together anymore so sex probably isn’t that good anyway?. And even if it is, banging each other is very unhealthy for at least one of you. Think about it this way: you just want to have meaningless sex with a girl that probably still have feelings for you. Well, since you probably care about her too, why confuse her?

Instead of calling your ex, you should definitely take into consideration a kinky encounter with one of the lovely girlfriend experience professional available on Escort Norway. This way you end up more than satisfied and you don’t risk hurting a person you used to love.

There Are Plenty of Fish in the Sea

Since you broke up, it means your relationship wasn’t going anywhere. So, why go back to the same thing, when you can have something new, something better? As they say, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else, so instead of calling your ex for some kinky play, why not contacting somebody else?

Call the girl you met at the club last night, risk it all and have a Tinder date, or play it safe and contact a high-class call girl. It doesn’t matter what you do, as long as you move forward!

Somebody Will Probably Feel Awful

As mentioned before, sex with the ex can bring suffering to your former lover, but it can also make you feel like shit. Both men and women are vulnerable from time to time and though an intimate moment with somebody who knows you well might seem like a great idea to fun yourself, sometimes it can lead to distress.

This is why it’s always better to say “no” to having sex with the ex, even when it sounds erotically comfortable!

It’s Time to Move On!

As you can see, choosing to have sex with your sex is a bad idea, no matter what your reason is. So, instead of holding your past tight, how about letting it go and moving on? Sometimes, we all tend to remain in our comfort zone, but doing this is far from being fulfilling and from making you feel good about yourself, isn’t it?

Now, as I said, there are plenty of fish in the see but if you are scared, why not being with small steps. Don’t go out and try to hook up with somebody in a bar if you are shy. Instead, call a lovely escort who will take good care of you and your timidity. How does that sound?

Anna Smith

Anna Smith

Anna Smith entered the adult industry in 2015. From that moment on, she has become one of the foremost writers around, using her sex industry expertise to bring her readers many fun and fact filled articles.

She is most well known for her sex advice pieces, yet also has a major interest in sexual health and other serious issues. However, this is all done with a quirky style that is unmistakably hers.

When she isn't working, Anna is a fitness fanatic, and enjoys going away with her partner for various weekend trips.
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