How To Masturbate For Better Sex

When you are having penis problems in the bedroom it can feel like the end of the world. You’ve been trying so hard to make sure that you give your partner a good time, and yet your cock decides to let you down and finish things early, or perhaps it won’t even rise to the occasion in the first place. When that happens it is pretty hard not to get upset and frustrated with your body for betraying you in this way.

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However, it could actually all be because of the way you masturbate. Your habits when masturbating, back from when you first learned that this was a fun thing you could do with your dick, might actually have a negative impact on your sex life now. Thankfully, there are some ways that you can fix it and make it all better.

Want to know the secret? Here on Escort Norway we tell you how you can change the way you jerk off to get your body doing what you want it to in the bedroom, and it will take no time at all to fix things.

“My cock won’t get hard!”

When a floppy dick happens to you it is really embarrassing. You don’t know what to say to your partner and, while they might try to say that they understand and that they can wait, you know that they simply want sex and might be thinking that you will never be able to give them the kind of hot and passionate fucking that they deserve.

The problem stems from a variety of problems. It could simply be that you are having some self-confidence issues that are making your penis stay as flaccid as a fish out of water, but some people are suggesting that your jerking off habits are to blame.

Basically, you have a very set technique when it comes to jerking off. You will get into the same position, look for porn, and then fap away while watching the bodies writhe on the screen. You have gotten comfortable, and when you add real sex to the equation things get thrown off kilter and you are left feel uncertain. This makes your penis hide away as best it can.

If you want to masturbate the problem away, you will need to basically train your body to respond to other kinds of stimulation. It might take some time, but eventually you will achieve it. Some suggest that the best thing to do is buy a sex toy to try out. Something like a fleshlight might give you a different sensation that you can easily get used to, and then you can move on to actual sex. Some are suggesting that, if this technique doesn’t work, you might be best taking a hiatus from jerking off… but you need to do something to change your habits and make things better.

“It’s over too soon!

This is another common problem that plenty of men will encounter at some point or another in their life. You are enjoying the moment and suddenly you will find yourself a little too close to orgasm. You might try to hold back, but you can’t do it and so the fun is over almost as soon as it has started.

Some say that it is simply a case of being too sensitive, but there are others out there who belief it all comes down to the way you jerk off. They say that, when you were younger, you will have been taught that masturbation was wrong. This view meant that you would try to do it quickly to avoid being caught doing this naughty thing, and this has had a huge impact on your sex life now.

Edging is a good technique to try while masturbating to see if you can stop yourself from orgasming too soon. When you feel as though you are getting close, slow down and take deep breaths until the sensation has gone. Then carry on. Set yourself a time to last for and slowly make the time a little longer with each session. You’ll find yourself lasting that little bit longer in no time at all.

Your PC muscles, otherwise known as your pubococcygeus, are the muscles used when you are practising your Kegel exercises. Yes, plenty of men will do these exercises, but not enough try them out when they are masturbating. If you want to see a big difference in your ability to control your orgasm, the best way to do it is to tighten those muscles as your orgasm gets close. Hold it for as long as you can and you will start to be able to control your orgasm a lot better.

“It just won’t happen!”

There are some men out there who feel very unlucky, as it will take so long to orgasm or they will find that they simply cannot get to orgasm at all. Compared to the problems above it might not seem like much, but it can be a real problem.

For a start, the woman they are fucking might start to think that they are unattractive, and that is before we even talk about the pain of being unable to orgasm as their pussy clamps hard on your cock for every single thrust and pump. It gets very sore down there, which can put you off sex even more.

Again, this could all have been caused by the way you masturbate. Try varying your masturbation techniques for a while and maybe even using toys and see if that makes a difference. You need to get your body responding to a wider variety of stimulation, and the best way to do that is to just go out there and do it!

Have you found that you have issues with the problems above, or are you lucky in that you have no problems like this in bed? Let us know what you want to read about next on the Escort Norway forum or by leaving a comment in the box below.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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One thought on “How To Masturbate For Better Sex”

  1. I enjoy playing with myself and I enjoy sex.
    If learning new masturbating skills help me have better sex, I will enjoy this.

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