It happens to everyone at some point in their lives. We’ll be happily fucking like rabbits and then find ourselves struggling to get the urge to want to do it. Our body might still respond, but we’re just not in it properly anymore.
When that happens it can make you feel awful. You want to love sex again but it is so hard to get yourself in the mood. You feel like there is nothing you can do and you are doomed to a lifetime of sex that just doesn’t interest you anymore.
Thankfully there are a number of different things that you can do to try and kick-start your mojo, so if you have found yourself in a sex slump, keep reading for the Escort Norway tips on kick starting your mojo.
You might not want to hear it, but if you have found your sex life going downhill, you might want to think about hitting the gym. Exercise is good for you, and it is about more than just getting yourself fit. Yes, getting yourself in shape might help you, but it isn’t just the physical that exercise helps with.
You will have heard this a lot, but exercise releases endorphins. Endorphins are basically the thing that gives you more energy and makes you happier. There is a reason that so many doctors tell their patients to hit the gym if they are feeling a little low, and that’s because the exercise can actually make them feel better mentally.
This can give you the energy you need to have better sex, but exercise also helps to get your blood pumping. Your blood flowing freely to your different organs can help make your body more responsive, so when you partner lovingly kisses you on that sweet spot on your neck, you will find yourself rising to the challenge!
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Another problem that people commonly encounter is that they tend not to do it often. They might find themselves doing if they are away from their partner for a long length of time, but they won’t really surprise them with it. That might be one of the reasons that your sex life is in a slump – there is no surprise anymore.
Want to give it a kick start? Try sending a raunchy text to your partner. You can tell them how much you miss them and that you were thinking of that last time you fucked, when you had them bent over in front of you, and it will get your heart racing. It might just be the perfect way to warm your body up for sex, and their saucy response will definitely put you in the mood!
Change your routine
Obviously a change in routine can do a hell of a lot of good for you, and when sex gets stale that tends to be what you need most of all. If you do the same things day in, day out with no change, you will get frustrated much more easily and lethargic, which is the quick way to kill your sex life.
Try to do something different to make sex better. Try surprising your partner every now and then, either by buying them flowers or sending them a raunchy text to let them know that you’re thinking of them. They’ll respond in kind and it will be a great way to reconnect.
If that doesn’t sound like something you want to do, why not make a simple change in the bedroom? Try having sex out of the bed, but still in the bedroom. This could be with them pressed against the cold mirror or even just sex on the floor. You don’t need to learn the Kama Sutra off by heart to get your blood racing again at the thought of sex with your partner!
Confidence in clothing
For some people, it can be that they get into the bedroom and don’t feel at all confident or sexy in themselves. You might be wondering how someone could even want to fuck you in the first place, and in those circumstances you need to feel better about yourself.
If you work in an office and feel like you are totally in control and confident when you are wearing your suit, take it into the bedroom. Slowly strip off your partner, teasing her as you take off each layer. She will be excited to see you out of it, and you will also get the confidence of wearing the suit while also enjoying the hot fuck you will get afterwards.
It could be that taking off the suit makes you feel worse, and if that is that case just fuck with it on! Get her in a dress and then push her against the wall, slowly pulling up her dress and pulling her panties to one side as you slide your cock out of your pants and into her dripping wet pussy. You will feel great as you are still in your suit and in power, while also getting sex. What could be better than that?
So what do you do when you are struggling to get yourself in the mood for sex? Have you ever experienced a slump in your sex life? What are your go-to tips for getting your mojo back? You can share them on the Escort Norway forum or in the comment box below. Let others know your best sex tips and you might just discover a few more to try in the bedroom later!
Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.
In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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