Hard Sex And Soft Sex: What’s The Difference?

Everyone has their own ideas about sex, and how it should be. We all have our preferences, our likes and dislikes. Some people enjoy soft sex, while others will prefer soft. So what are the differences between hard and soft sex?

Soft sex

Soft sex is where the people taking part in it have a greater focus on connecting with their partner and ensuring both enjoy themselves. They want it to be about strengthening the relationship between them, bringing them closer as two people, and to connect as one.
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It is the same connection that can be seen during sensual massages, where one partner will concentrate entirely on the other to help them relax and feel comfortable with them.

Hard sex

On the other side of things, there is hard sex. As you might expect, the main element of hard sex is receiving pleasure. It can be rough, and sometimes involve a little BDSM to heighten things. It is sex in the purest form, meaning that it can be done in a stable relationship or with someone you are seeing casually.

Hard sex allows more exploration of different sex positions, as the fast nature of it lets you find the best position for your pleasure.

Which is better?

Some may have a preference, but for me I enjoy both of them. If I have enjoyed a romantic evening, I will be more inclined to enjoy some soft sex, where my partner and I could spend a long time in bed just exploring each other’s bodies.

When the urge strikes me, I will want nothing more than a passionate night, continuing to do it over and over again, many times, and enjoy every moment of it. Which do you prefer, or are you like me and enjoy both hard sex and soft sex?

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Martin Ward is a well respected editor and writer with over five years experience in the adult industry. After stints in the Escort Advertising call centre and on the escort forum, he moved into the site editor position around three years ago.

Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.

When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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