A Guide To Oral Sex!

Oral sex is one of the most satisfying sexual acts that you can perform on, or receive from, your partner. Nevertheless, a recent study has shown that oral sex is becoming increasingly less popular among older couples. Our daily routines may be hectic, but taking the time to go down on your partner from time to time will keep your sex life intimate and fun.

From being comfortable receiving to improving the taste of your orgasm, here are our top tips for giving and receiving incredible oral sex.

1) Relax

Many of us feel nervous when it comes to receiving oral sex for the first time, but if you’re continually self-conscious then you’re not likely to enjoy it as much. So long as you’re clean, there’s nothing to be embarrassed about – so learn to let go of your inhibitions. Focus your mind on what your partner is doing, where they are kissing, licking and so forth – this will take your mind away from your worries.

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2) Consider your diet

As the saying goes; you are what you eat. There has long been a scientific debate as to whether or not your diet affects the way your sexual fluids taste. Within these debates the advice appears to be fairly consistent; it is said that sugary fruits (such as pineapple and cranberries), parsley, mint and cinnamon will make you taste better. However, you should avoid smoking, caffeine, asparagus and spicy foods beforehand. The best way to find out is to conduct your own experiments – this gives you only more reasons to have oral sex!

3) Experiment with flavours

If a change to your diet doesn’t do the trick; don’t despair! There are lots of flavoured lubes out there to experiment with – from pineapple to chocolate mint, there’s a flavour for everyone.  Remember – wet sex is great sex, so apply plenty of lube for added fun.

4) Be vocal

If you want your partner to please you, then you need to tell them what it is you like and don’t like. Feedback is vital if you want to receive the best possible oral sex, so open up and be honest. If you pretend to enjoy oral sex when you’re not, then your partner won’t know how to please you. It really is that simple.

If you’re feeling confident, try directing your partner so that they spend more time doing whatever it is that ticks the right boxes for you.

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5) Think outside the box

Oral sex can be more than just licking the clit/penis. Try involving all your partners’ hot spots during oral sex;

When performing on a man, be sure to include his testicles, his shaft and the perineum (the area between his balls and anus). Give your tongue a rest and use your hands and fingers to stroke his thighs, lower shaft and perineum. Or gently cradle his testicles while you suck his penis – the combination of sensations will drive him wild.

When performing a woman, keep in mind that the clitoral nerves extend into the hood. When your partner has a clitoral erection, you will be able to feel that the clit extends way further back.
Gently lick the length of the clit for added pleasure. Penetration during oral is also very satisfying for a woman. Try sliding a couple of fingers in and out of her vagina as you’re licking her clitoral area. Tired hands? Toys work just as well!

6) Control the suction

When it comes to oral sex, sucking is part of the fun. However there is a fine line between pleasure and discomfort. As a general rule; women do not enjoy suction – the sensation can often be too intense for them to enjoy. Of course, everyone is different so talking through what you and your partner like/don’t like will help. When experimenting with suction, start off very gently and gauge your partner’s reaction before applying any more force.

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7) Variation can be fun

Variation is the key to a healthy and satisfying sex life, so don’t be afraid to suggest or introduce new techniques or toys to the bedroom. Oral sex can be enhanced by using sex toys alongside your mouth. Wearing butt plugs or anal beads during will improve the intensity of the orgasm. A cock ring will help magnify the sensations and lavish the shaft with attention, while you focus on the other key areas. Using a dildo or vibrator to penetrate her, while you concentrate on the clit, will have a similar effect.

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Remember, Oral sex can be a lot of fun. It is certainly something you should make time for!

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Martin Ward

Martin Ward is a well respected editor and writer with over five years experience in the adult industry. After stints in the Escort Advertising call centre and on the escort forum, he moved into the site editor position around three years ago.

Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.

When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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