Good Tips For Handjobs

Most women tend to go straight on their knees when they fool around with their partners, but guess what? Guys love receiving hand jobs, as well! Think about it this way: you enjoy him kissing your pussy, but you also like it when he turns you on with his fingers, especially if he has the moves like Jagger, right?

Mans hand squeezing bedsheet
Man grabing satin sheet on the bed.

So, next time you are playing with your partner, instead of pleasuring him with your mouth, use your hands, firmly and gently at the same time, slow and then a bit faster, taking care of his penis even better than he does…when you are not around.

It’s not the easiest thing to do, but girls, this is not rocket science, so all you have to do is concentrate blowing his mind with your soft hands!

It’s Like… You’ re Competing with Al Pacino for a Role!

As in every situation, you must have a perfect atmosphere. Maybe you won’t have time to cook a sexy dinner, but I am sure you have wine in your house and that’s enough!

If you have no candles to light, concentrate on lighting his fire. So, start kissing him, and moving your hands on his body until you reach his jeans. Massage his penis without undressing him and when you finally do…ask him to show you how to do it.

Many might find this strange, but it shouldn’t be. It’s actually quite sexy. And besides that, girl, right now… you’re competing with Al Pacino for a role in The Godfather! You have to cheat a bit! OK, I got carried away…

But let me put it this way. When I first pleasured my partner with just my hands, all I could think about was the fact that he does that all the time (yes, the hand was Al Pacino in my metaphor) So, I asked him to do it in front of me! Not only did I really enjoy it, but I also learned lot from seeing how he moves his hand.

And guess what? After a couple of auditions, I beat the hell out of Al Pacino! And here are some tips that will help you improve your hand job technique:

All You Need is Lube, Lube, Lube…

I am speaking for all men when I say that you should never give a dry hand job unless you are trying to punish him for something. When your hand is dry, you don’t give pleasure, but pain! So, if you are trying to make him happy, use lube!

Of course, you can use saliva if you are not one of those girls who feel weird when they spit into their hand or on they partners’ cocks. You can even put it in your mouth for a bit! Whatever you do, just don’t let it dry!

It’s a Cock, Not a Flower!

Your partner loves your delicate womanly hands but when it comes to rubbing his penis, how about doing it well? It’s not a breakable tulip so you won’t kill it if you try to reach the right amount of pressure without fear.

How do you know when you’re doing it right? Alternate the pressure and pay attention to his reactions. If he is silent or he has a pained face don’t just keep doing what you’re doing. Try something else, until he starts moaning or whatever your partner does when he’s aroused.

How Low Should You Go?

Another issue you might encounter when giving your man a hand job is how to move your hand up and down without hurting him. Well, it has to be… not too high and to go not too low. Otherwise, you might produce pain and that definitely makes him go soft.

So, be careful not to rub the delicate tip of his penis too much, as well as to not pull the skin too hard when going down!!!!! In order to see how high and how low, begin doing it very slow, until you know when to stop!

Also, if you watched him doing it you should have an idea about his limits! I told you that watching his is a really good idea, didn’t I?

Right or Left? Hmm… Both!

If you want to surprise him, alternate between using one hand or both your hands on him. How does a hand job with two hands involved change things?

Well, it allows you to stimulate both his shaft and the top of his penis, and that gives him a different kind of pleasure. Just like giving him deep throat is quite different than regular oral sex. It’s all about the nerves you get to arouse!

So, Who Likes Ball Sports?

We all know that the most sensitive part of your man’s penis is the top. So you should pay attention to that area, but the balls are hypersensitive, as well. This is why men are so scared of getting kicked in that area, but love having their sack rubbed while getting a hand job.

So, use your hand like a cup and squeeze them in a gentle manner, or use your nails to easily scratch his balls. This way to arouse his testicles is quite tricky because if you use your nails with too much pressure…you just put his penis to sleep. So, be careful!

Also, while you’re down there, remember to stimulate the area between his penis and his ass. Just rub this piece of skin for thirty seconds, while applying a bit of pressure and he will feel it!

Please, Don’t Go “Fast and Furious” on It!

Many women think fast means good, but remember that his penis is attached to him so don’t go to wild! What you can do if you want to give him a mind blowing orgasm is to start with slow, long strokes! Then, pay attention to his moves and reactions, in order to “know” when to go faster!

You will feel when he is close to orgasm since his whole body clenches…and that’s the moment when, whatever you do DON’T STOP!

And when he has the orgasm, just slowly release the pressure you were applying to his penis. Be gentle because after the sperm is out, his penis becomes even more sensitive.

Now, keep in mind all these tips, but when you are offering your partner a hand job, remember that no two guys are alike and this is why I insist you pay attention to his reactions. Watching him doing it, as well as getting his feedback will help you find the moves that send him over the edge!

Last, but not least never underestimate the power your attitude has over him! If you don’t enjoy it, he will know! And that’s a turn-off! No man wants to be pleasured by somebody who is not having a good time so, if you want to do it right, you better enjoy giving a hand job, girl!

Anna Smith

Anna Smith

Anna Smith entered the adult industry in 2015. From that moment on, she has become one of the foremost writers around, using her sex industry expertise to bring her readers many fun and fact filled articles.

She is most well known for her sex advice pieces, yet also has a major interest in sexual health and other serious issues. However, this is all done with a quirky style that is unmistakably hers.

When she isn't working, Anna is a fitness fanatic, and enjoys going away with her partner for various weekend trips.
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One thought on “Good Tips For Handjobs”

  1. I like a girl to rub my dick slow over my clothes and when I am hard, she then open my pants and she start rubbing my dick and balls.
    I rub her pussy the same way, slow and when her pants are wet, I lick her pussy.

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