Finding The BDSM Act For You

Saying to a dominatrix that you would like to try domination is almost like saying to a chef that you would like your food to come out on a plate. Domination is such a huge category that you need to be a lot more specific about what you want to try out.

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However, if you have never tried anything BDSM before, you might have no idea what would most appeal to you. Sure, you might have something you want to try, but those interested in cock and ball torture might want to start off small and work their way up to it to ensure they are definitely ready for it.

Here on the Escort Norway blog, we take a look at some of the different areas of domination to help you figure out exactly which one you really want to try, and give you some alternative suggestions to look into.

Foot fetish

Those with a foot fetish might easily be able to slip into domination, as their love of sexy feet can be used in body worship. Body worship is where your mistress or master orders you to appreciate their body, by complimenting them on the body part, as well as touching and kissing them.

Body worship ties in nicely with a foot fetish, as your dominatrix can order you onto your knees while they stand before you in sexy thigh high boots. You might be told to take their boot off and give their foot a massage.

From there, you might be asked to kiss their feet and lick them to make sure they are clean. It is a nice way to ease into domination, as you can do the usual things you would do with their feet by this time under orders of your mistress.

You might be hoping to enjoy a little more pain with your domination, and a way of doing that is to enjoy a trampling. Your mistress might choose a pair of high heels or ask you to select them, before ordering you to lie down. They will then use those heels to walk up and down your body, causing you pain as their heels dig into your skin. It can be a huge turn on to watch their sexy feet moving along your body, and it is something you won’t forget!

Spanking, caning, and whipping

You might have been very bad and hoping to receive some punishment. You could be punished in a number of ways, but many enjoy a good spanking, caning, or whipping from their mistress.

Spanking is a great way to be introduced to BDSM, as your mistress will be able to gauge how hard to hit the fleshy parts of your body with her hand. You could enjoy a light spanking on your arse while bent over her knee, or perhaps she will have you stand for her to see if you can take the punishment. You might then move on to being hit with a leather spanking paddle, which can produce more pain, and the sound of it hitting you will be a huge turn on.

Whipping is a popular second step to spanking. Your mistress might slowly glide the whip over your body, watching the way you flinch as it touches your skin. If she thinks you are ready, she might bring it lightly down to test you. She will slowly build up the swing to drive you wild, and you will find yourself begging for more.

Perhaps one of the most popular BDSM acts at the moment is caning. Caning ties in to a school mistress fantasy, and so many will ask for their dominatrix to dress up like a school mistress before giving them the cane and treating them like a naughty student. They will give you six of the best with their long cane, making you yell out their name as they punish you the way you deserve.

Being a slave

For some, there is no greater joy than being turned into a slave, and you will easily be able to find a dominatrix who accepts new slaves into the group. As a slave, you will be order to do whatever she desires, whether that is clean the floor or simply sit quietly while she gets things done.

Your mistress might instead want to take your through dog training, where you could be given a collar and a lead and treated like a dog. Some will even go so far as to put you in a dog cage, and you will only be fed or watered through the bars. Some people will find it very gratifying to give up all of their control to a beautiful woman, and so this could be something you are interested in.

As a slave, you might find yourself making mistakes. If you do, your mistress might want to humiliate you in some way. This could be done in a number of ways, from simply taking your clothes from you and making you walk around like that or by pissing on you and getting you involved in some watersports. However, if this isn’t your thing, they might instead take you outside for some public humiliation, where you will be treated like the dog you are.

There are so many different things to try in domination that it is hard to cover them all. Hopefully you will have seen something in this list that appeals to you, and if you have you know what you could move on to next. What dominant act do you think is perfect for beginners? Let us know by writing in the comment box below, or you could head on over to the Escort Norway forum and share your thoughts there.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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