Are We Having Enough Sex?

Ask most people if they are having enough sex and you’ll get a one word answer: no. There are all sorts of different things that stop us from having lots of passionate, hot, sweaty sex. Stress from work, busy social life, and families are just a few of the things that can prevent you from enjoy the sex that you really want.

A sexy couple are in bed, discussing if they are having enough sex

However, the amount of sex we want and the amount we realistically get don’t match up. If they did, we’d all be fucking every second of the day. But we aren’t. Instead we enjoy our bedroom antics when we can… but it seems that even these brief moments aren’t enough.

A recent survey has suggested that the amount of time we are having sex is so minimal that you would be surprised by how much time we are actually having sex. Clearly, we aren’t having enough sex, and here on the Escort Norway blog we will tell you just how much sex we are having. We also have some handy tips to tell you how you can get more sex in your life.

How you spend your time

Reebok decided that they wanted to know just what we were getting up to with our time. They were keen to learn how much time we were dedicating to things like exercise, sleep, and socialising. The global study asked for information from over 9,000 people about the things that they get up to during a typical day, week, month, and year. They wanted to know if there was a pattern, and if there was, they wanted to know how the could change things.

Of course, Reebok being the big brand that they are, their focus was mainly on exercise… but the results they were given were enough to make them probe into other areas. They found that, on average, people “will actually spend less than one percent of their entire life exercising”.

This doesn’t give us much hope for other areas, as they revealed that we spend just 0.69% of our lives doing exercise. This works out at around 180 days out of 25,915. No, it really isn’t that much, and the numbers get more shocking when they look at other areas.

Are we getting enough sex?

They also asked people how much time they spent having sex. Once they had the data, they correlated it together to come up with a definitive answer. Just take a minute to have a guess at how much sex you think we are having.

According to the study, “the average human will spend 0.45 percent of our lives having sex, or around 117 days in total”.

0.45%. That is it. It seems like a pathetically low number, one that we are keen to change, considering that the survey also tells us that we spend “29.5 percent of our lives sitting down”. That’s over 65 times longer! We spend more time sitting on our backsides than fucking. You can take a look at the other survey results to see what else we do more of than sex.

Time for a sex schedule

So, how do you change it? How do you make sure you are getting enough sex in your life? One way to do it is to set a sex schedule. Yes, this might sound like a boring way of doing it, but it will really help.

Setting a sex schedule doesn’t mean the romance is dead. It means that you are making time for sex, which is an important part of life. You make appointments with the Oslo escorts, right? So why not schedule some sex in with your partner.

You set aside a time and date that you will both be free. You won’t be working, you won’t be thinking about work. All you will think about is each other. This gives you time to focus on the important things, like making your partner cum harder than they ever have before.

This is actually a really kinky and hot way to spice things up in the bedroom. You are going to find that, the closer you get to the time, the more turned on you are. The wait and the build up to the hour of sex will make you hornier than you have been before, and will basically replace foreplay. So you should at least try this once.

Talk about sex

Of course, one of the main reasons that we aren’t getting enough sex is that we aren’t enjoying it as much. For some people, they are just having it for the sake of it. They aren’t putting in the effort needed to make it great, and that means we are turned off sex completely.

If you want to change things, you should take the time to sit down with your partner and talk about sex. Tell them what you want from sex, what turns you on the most, and see what they say. They might have noticed a change in things too, and if you talk about it together, you can come up with a great plan that works for both of you.

Fitting sex into your schedule can be pretty difficult, but when you consider how little time we spend having sex, you’ll realise it is worth it. You want to have enough sex to leave you feeling satisfied, so the tips above should help you.

Do you feel like you just don’t last long enough in bed? Why not try one of these five sex positions to help you last longer?

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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