Dominatrix Work – A Guide

A Dominatrix is the female version of the Dom. You may have some idea of what characteristics this certain female may possess. She is a strong, assertive female with the simple aim of sexually pleasuring her male submissive with sadistic acts, including resistance sex, whipping, stepping on her sub with heels and basically being a bad ass you don’t want to mess with. We look into her world.

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The Dominatrix Look

The classic dominatrix look is a tight black possibly pVC catsuit outfit with straps, crotchless parts and breasts openings, this is the typical fetish look, an iconic look that has lasted through the ages. As much as male orientated dominance is popular, there is also a huge market for dominatrix females, called Dommes and many are professionals. Dominatrix women adore their shoes, as well as being weapons for bondage and sadistic acts, they make her appear more powerful. High heels, stilettos and thigh highs are popular. Corsets are deemed a fetish accessory and for a dominatrix, this is a sexy item of clothing guaranteed to make her appear more sexually assertive. Other accessories include fishnet stockings, gloves and a nice hard whip or riding crop. Run while you still can!

Dominatrix Acts

A dominatrix is confident, domineering and in charge. She is the boss and she knows it! A dominatrix knows how to bring a sub to his needs, without him having sexual contact with her, in fact there can be no sexual contact throughout the session and it would still be arousing and exhilarating for both her and her sub. Her acts include whipping, spanking and slapping. Clients also ask to be tied up as slaves and carry out acts on her. Sometimes, full sex is also carried out, whilst tied up or blindfolded, with resistance sex connotations. Dominatrix females are asked to carry out certain fantasies, some require their domme to walk on them with her towering heels, or suck the shoes on her feet as a humiliation act. In the world of a dominatrix female, anything goes.

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Dominatrix Secrets

Xena, a professional dominatrix talks openly about her experiences of being a professional domme. She says that rather than the typical view of a dungeon like playroom where pain and humiliation rule, the world of a dome is rather an arena when fantastical role play comes to life. I encourage my clients to hand write scenarios they would like to experience and I act them out to the best of my ability, with the help of my warrior princess alter ego. She explains everybody has an erotic pain level, which when stimulated, explodes with endorphins. Some of her clients write to her with details of torturous pain, but when it comes down to it, they are really quite soft. A lot of Xena’s clients are married, and their wives cannot accommodate their wild need for submission, so there are wives out there compliant of their husbands visiting Xena.

Tips On How To Be A Dominatrix

Another dominatrix, Mistress Darkness describes her time as a dominatrix as sitting at the top of sex worker hierarchy, she is pampered, adored, lavished and of course gets to take out some frustration out on her submissives. She indulges all with tips on how to be the best dominatrix. She implores dominatrix to shave all, be hairless, preened to perfection and gorgeous – just because the domme is in charge it doesn’t mean they shouldn’t try and please their client. She suggests finding a mentor to walk you through the steps of acting as a domme, you need to learn to do rope bondage safely, piss on command and negotiate with clients.

Consider all the risks when acting as a domme, being a dominatrix is the fantasy and exchange of power. There are limits for you and your clients and these need to be considered before launching into the seductively powerful world of being a professional domme. If you are looking for some ideas to spice up things with your boyfriend, watch some domme videos and practice, don the outfit, get the attitude and you’re pretty much there.

Are you interested in a dominatrix? Would you like to see what you could experience if you booked a professional? Let us know in the comments section below or in the Escort Norway forum!

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Martin Ward is a well respected editor and writer with over five years experience in the adult industry. After stints in the Escort Advertising call centre and on the escort forum, he moved into the site editor position around three years ago.

Since then, he has specialised in articles on the battle for equal rights for sex workers, sexual health, as well as bringing the readers fun news from around the world. He also has a major interest in LGBT rights, and is an active campaigner in this field.

When he isn't fighting the good fight, he enjoys spending time with his girlfriend, and young daughter. He also enjoys reading and taking long walks.
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