Domination Isn’t Just Whips And Chains

Mention domination to someone and they will immediately think of chains, whips, and being tortured by someone wearing leather and thigh-high boots with spikes on them. Either that, or they think of that song where someone proclaims that “chains and whips excite” them, and that this is pretty much all that S&M and BDSM are about.

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People often forget that there is so much more to domination than the pain part. There is also the pleasure and the fact that domination is all about someone taking control. Saying that domination is just hurting someone with consent is like saying that sex is done only in the missionary position. In some cases that might be true, but most people do so much more than that in the bedroom.

Here on the Escort Norway blog we take a look at the different domination acts that you can enjoy without a whip or chain in sight! These are just some of the pain free ways that you can enjoy being dominated.

Body worship

Body worship is one of the favourite domination services that you can enjoy. If your dominatrix has a particular area of her body that you simply cannot get enough of, such as her ass or her sweet pussy, you would basically worship it and show her just how much you love and appreciate it.

Most of it starts out with compliments, with you telling her that you love how sweet and wet her pussy looks, or the way that her jeans cling to her ass turns you on. This might not be what your dominatrix wants to hear, and so they will tell you the right way to worship there body is to get physical.

Instead of having you simply tell them that their body looks good, they will present your favourite body part to you for you to lay kisses, licks, and attention on. For many people this comes in as a foot fetish, as they will kiss, lick, and generally show affection to the feet of their dominatrix.

However, body worship is not just limited to the foot fetish. In fact, for many it involves getting as close to the pussy or the ass as they can.

Face sitting and smothering

Facesitting, sometimes referred to as kinging or queening, is when one person, as you might imagine, sits on the face of their partner. It puts their pussy or ass in the perfect position to get some attention, and it is used both as a way to worship the body and also to humiliate someone.

Some people will even have a special piece of furniture made to make the whole act easier, and it can be referred to as a queening stool or a smothering box. For many, they prefer using this instead of physically sitting on their partner’s face, as there is less chance of cutting off their air supply.

Of course, facesitting is very similar to smothering. Smothering is when you have the pussy or ass covering so much of your face that you are actually asphyxiated a little. This is a huge high for many, as they love the rush that they get when they are allowed to breathe again.

Facesitting and smothering are very popular methods of body worship and humiliation without having to whip someone. They allow the dominatrix to take control and get pleasure while their slave works hard to please them, and so many love trying it out.

Public humiliation

Humiliation, as we have already mentioned, is another huge part of the world of domination. Domination isn’t just about causing physical pain. For some, it is being made to feel as though they are worthless and that they deserve to be treated poorly by others, which is why humiliation is so popular.

If you were to really take a look at domination, you’d realise that humiliation is everywhere. Body worship has it when you consider smothering and face sitting are a part of it, and even being whipped can be considered humiliation as you are being punished for not being good enough.

The act of humiliation comes in many forms. For some, it is simply being called a dog or a slut and made to feel really small, but others aren’t satisfied with this. They want humiliating further, and so their dominatrix might make them dress as a dog, or take their humiliation into the public eye.

Public humiliation is something we are seeing a lot of lately. Recently a video started to spread on social media of a dominatrix walking some dogs (slaves) along the main road. The fear of being recognised is a huge turn on for many, as they like to keep their sex lives secret, and so this is just one more way you can be dominated without being physically hurt.

Financial domination

One of the more complex acts of domination is financial domination. The slave becomes a pay pig, and the dominatrix gets put in charge of the money.

For some it is as simple as transferring a little bit of money each week to their favourite dominatrix, but some will send pretty much all of their hard-earned wage to them and ask them to take control of it. The dominatrix will then tell them what they can and cannot spend it on, and when the client strays they will be punished.

When someone else takes control of your finances in this way you start to think a little more carefully about what you are spending your cash on. Do you really need those biscuits that you are going to eat all in one go later on, or is there a better alternative for you? This act, although it seems simple, is complicated, and so many choose to do it simply because it takes decision making out of their hands.

Would you ever go for financial domination, or have you a bigger fetish you enjoy? Let us know in the comment box below or visit the Escort Norway forum and join in the discussion there.

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Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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2 thoughts on “Domination Isn’t Just Whips And Chains”

  1. Financial domination? This is crazy.
    So you pay a woman to take all of your money from your account?
    I do not understand people.

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