Debunking The Biggest Sex Myths!

There are hundreds of different sex myths that people believe are really true. They worry about the little things, thinking that their partner is concerned about it, when really, the only thing we care about is having fun with someone who wants us to enjoy ourselves. That doesn’t mean you need to have the biggest dick in the world or be able to last for over an hour without cuming.

A couple enjoying debunking sex myths

Of course, telling people this doesn’t make that much of a difference. Saying things like “size doesn’t matter” just makes people think that we are saying it for the sake of it. The thing is that, a lot of the time, we aren’t saying it to make you feel better. We say it because it is true.

There are so many sex myths out there that it would be difficult to debunk them all, so instead we are going to take a look at the biggest. Take a look below to read Escort Norway debunking the biggest sex myths out there… and tell you why these things really don’t matter.

Bigger isn’t always better

There is one question that you will hear about more than others when people discuss sex myths. This one question is on the lips of almost every men out there: “does size matter?”

People become fixated with the question, and they are sure that the bigger the dick, the better the time your partner will have. After all, bigger is better, right?

Wrong. When it comes to sex, bigger doesn’t not always equal better. In fact, a lot of people prefer dicks to be of average size or smaller. Why? Because they are much easier to handle. A big dick can feel uncomfortable or even painful if you do not take care. When people say “more than a handful is a waste” about tits, the same can be applied to cocks.

What really matters is if you can actually use it. If you have a chub, the ladies you fuck will not care if you can use it well and get them off. As long as you care about bringing them pleasure and making them feel great, they won’t mind if you are on the smaller side.

Women don’t like porn

When women start to talk about porn, men tend to have the same reaction. They will stare at them, amazed that there are women out there who like porn, and they seem to think that we are a rare species of women. The truth is, we aren’t. Women like porn just as much as men.

The difference is that a lot of porn out there is created with men in mind, not women. That is why a lot of women will instead watch things like lesbian porn. It shows women getting a lot of the right attention and there are plenty of options out there for us. What could be better than that?

Anal sex always hurts!

Anal sex is still a huge taboo. People think it is something so sinful and kinky to do that they are tempted into doing it more. However, they are worried about it. Why? Well, it is because there are a lot of people out there warning us that anal sex always hurts and that, if you really want to enjoy anal, you are just going to have to put up with the pain.

Anal sex only hurts if you do not properly prepare for it. This means that those of you out there trying to immediately slide a cock up your ass, without any lubrication or foreplay, are going to feel the burn and the pain.

You need to train your body for anal. This means slipping fingers up the ass and letting your body adjust. Then you move on to toys. From toys, you might then try a big, thick cock to make you feel as though you have been filled.

When it comes to anal, lube is your best friend. There is no such thing as too much lube, as it can make everything go smoothly. So the next time one of your friends claims that anal sex always hurts, call them out on it, because this is one of the biggest sex myths.

Some people are naturally good at sex

Some people seem to have natural talents for things. You might be creative and so be particularly good with a pencil at creating fine art. You might even have a talent for technology and simply understand it better than others. However, these are all skills that take a little time to get to any level of skill, and it is the same for sex.

However, sex is not one of them. Every single person is different, so what turns on one person in bed isn’t always going to turn on another. You have to experiment, and having a strong connection with your partner is what makes sex better… not necessarily being a “sex god”.

No orgasm = no good

Unfortunately, not every single women out there will reach orgasm every time that she has sex. It is a sad fact, but it happens. It might simply be that you don’t hit the right spots for them or that there are some other factors preventing them from reaching the orgasm that they truly deserve.

However, some people believe that the whole point of sex is to reach orgasm. They think that sex only ends when the man cums, and that the moment he does, sex is over. That’s it. No more oral, teasing, or anything.

This is one of the worst sex myths out there. The whole point of sex is not, contrary to popular belief, just to reach orgasm. Does sex only feel good when you cum? No. In fact, the whole build up to orgasm is intense.

Just because your partner doesn’t orgasm and you do doesn’t mean that the sex is done and that it was bad. Did she moan a lot? Did she seem to enjoy herself? If so, it will have felt good for her and we are certain that there are plenty of other hot things that you can do to make her feel fantastic.

Condoms ruin sex

People like to complain about condoms. They say that they are too tight, that they cut off circulation, or that they simply make it harder to feel every sensation. Ultimately, they try to blame condoms for the bad sex they are having, but often it is user error rather than the condoms themselves.

Yes, if you buy the wrong condoms then they can have a huge impact on your sex life, so you need to make sure you get the right ones. Don’t just buy large sized condoms to inflate your ego, as this can actually make the chances of the condom slipping off higher. Instead, go for one that fits your cock. Using a good lube can also help matters, as take the time to experiment with different condoms and lube to see what works for you best.

The biggest sex myths

The problem with sex myths is that people seem to automatically believe anything said about sex is true. “This one trick will get her to cum every time!” and “this is the only sex trick you will need” make people think that what is true for one person is true for them all.

There might be some people looking at this list thinking “but some of these are true”, and they might be… in some cases. However, for the majority of people, they want to call bullshit on these sex myths.

Have you heard some other things about sex that you suspect might be sex myths? Want to hear what others think of our list? You can use the comment box below to join in the discussion and share or you could head over to the Escort Norway forum and join in the discussion there.

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Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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