The Best Sex Games Real People Are Playing!

You might want to spice things up in the bedroom with a game, but finding out what to play is a real challenge. Sometimes the rules are too complicated, or the instructions are so confusing that you aren’t entirely sure what you are meant to do. You want to find the sex games that real people are playing, so that you know that they work.

Couple kissing in bed

Thanks to Reddit, we can get answers to pretty much every question we ever thought of asking. It’s a fun and fantastic place, especially if you are looking for a little inspiration in the bedroom. So I take a look at some of the best sex games as recommended by Reddit users, so you know that these games really will work.

60 minutes in heaven

This is the kind of game that is perfect for you and your partner if you struggle to fit both of your desires into one sex session. It will go a lot longer than your usual sessions, but this will make it all the more exciting when you do finally get to your orgasm.

ialwaysusethrowaway1 suggested this game, explaining that it isn’t for every single day and simply “whenever the mood calls for it”. It ensures, according to them, that them and their wife enjoy sex a little more when they try it.

It’s a really simple game. You’ll take it in turns to choose a sexual activity, and then you’ll spend five minutes on it. When you are done, you’ll swap so that the other person chooses. Eventually you’ll find that you’ve spent an hour having sex and tried a number of different things in that time. If you find that an hour is too much at first, try it for half an hour instead!

A whole new kind of happy hour!
Original source: Tenor

Between the shows

If you are the type of person who enjoys watching TV with your partner to unwind after a hard day at work, this might be a great sex game for you. It was suggested by do_itagain in the comments underneath the above sex game, and has proven to be incredibly popular with Redditers.

They explain the concept, saying that “when a commercial comes on, instead of fast forwarding, we make out, suck, lick, anything [but] penetrate“. This makes for an incredible build up to orgasm especially if you wait until the show has finished.

You might find that there is a problem with this method if you don’t want standard television. If you watch on demand services, you won’t get adverts the same way. For those on a Netflix binge, you can simply pause between the shows, set a five minute timer, and go for it. When the time is up, you have to stop. It’ll certainly spice things up!

Watching TV together just got a lot more exciting
Original source: Fan Forum

Hidden notes

Sometimes the best kind of sex is spontaneous. If something sexy happens when we least expect it, we are more turned on than ever before. It’s so good, but trying to be spontaneous can be a real struggle. Thankfully, Reddit comes to the rescue.

easyweeks suggests a spontaneous sex game that can be planned in advance. You might be wondering how that works. They explain that they will sit down with their partner and write a number of notes, which they then hide. When you find a note of theirs, you hide another one of yours so that there are always the same number hidden.

These notes contain all of the kinky and spontaneous things you might like your partner to do. The difference is that you don’t know when they will find them! They might find them a month later, when you are at work, or they might find them when you are in the shower.

This is where the spontaneous bit comes in. Your notes could say anything from “send me a dirty text right now” to “next time we leave the house together, you aren’t allowed to wear underwear”. It is a lot of fun, especially if you hide the notes in different places each time. There are plenty of ideas for notes on the Reddit page, so take a look and see what suggestions you can find.

Leaving notes in certain places can be a lot of fun
Original source: DeviantArt

Your favourite sex games

We all have our favourite sex games. I love to take normal games, such as poker, and add sexy rules to them. Strip poker is a classic, but if you want things to go a little faster, strip snap works well too! You can turn anything into a kinky sex game if you take the time to think of the rules.

Not a fan of that idea? There are plenty of other amazing sex games out there for you to try. Maybe you have a few games of your own you’d like to share?

Whatever your kinky suggestion is, you can share it with us in the comment box below. Tell us all about your favourite sex games to play and see what others have to suggest!

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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