Before you go running off to find something else to read, hear me out. Yes, there are so many hot and steamy things that you can do in the bedroom with your clothes off, but have you ever stopped to think that maybe you are rushing into it? So many of us are so keen to get each other out of our clothes and slithering into something more comfortable (like nothing at all) that we are missing out on a lot of fun.
There are a ton of sexy games and things that you can do in the bedroom without taking single item of clothing off, and if that wasn’t enough to tempt you, it will get you both so turned on that when you do finally get each other out of your clothes, you’ll have the most explosive orgasms. Plus, it is a great way to see who has the most willpower, so check out the bedroom games that you can play without taking your clothes off.
Get her into your clothes
As a woman I sometimes find myself really jealous of the clothes that you guys get to wear. For a start, they are so much comfier and I can say that there is no bigger turn on than walking out wearing your guy’s shirt over your lingerie and nothing else.
If you are a man who has had the pleasure of seeing such a sight you will know how good it is. It is such a huge turn-on, especially if she has on some dark lingerie under that white shirt as it will leave very little to the imagination. And yet, you’ll still be eager to take her out of it.
Instead though, you should try having sex with the clothes on. Sit yourself down on a chair and get her to sit in your lap, grinding herself against your cock and teasing you as you kiss her neck. You can let your hands wander, but keep the clothes on for that extra thrill. It will feel so much naughtier, as though you are having a quickie and have no time to strip, which makes it even better.
Getting old school
Back when we were younger and first discovering sex, we would pretty much panic at the sight of a naked body. Yet we would still happily explore it, instead keeping our hands above the clothes and occasionally slipping them under to explore a little further. It was partially because we weren’t quite sure of what we were doing yet, but also the risk of being caught meant that over the clothes action was the safest bet.
If you want to spice things up in a fun way, go old school. Sit next to each other on the sofa and go for a heavy make-out session. Let your tongue slide along their slips and into their mouth as you slowly drift a hand to her chest. Squeeze her tit and nipple through the material before trailing to the other and listening to her moan.
When things are moving along nicely, allow your hands to pass under her clothes. Take it slowly, as though it is completely unfamiliar territory for you, and you might just discover some new hot spots that she loves you stroking and teasing with your fingers.
Grab some dice…
You might only see dice on Christmas day when someone pulls out Monopoly, but there are plenty of different dice sets that you can get to spice things up in the bedroom. Many of them come in pairs, with one die saying an action, such as lick, kiss, suck or stroke, and the other gives a body part such as neck, lips, tits.
These sex dice sets are very cheap to buy, with a lot of sex shops having them as novelty items. However, they might be the perfect way to spice up your sex life, especially if you do a lot of travelling and don’t want to take a big, chunky toy around the world with you.
The only adjustment you need to make to it is to keep your clothes on. Keep rolling the dice until you have exhausted all options, and if you really want to you can remove an item of clothing and start again. The long tease will have you rock hard and her dripping wet in no time at all.
Of course, you might not want to spend money on the dice at all, and if that is the case simply make your own with just the one dice. Write down what each number will stand for (both actions and area) and then roll it. Make a note of the number and roll again. By using just the one die it will build the tension even more as she watches and waits to see what you will do.
Seven minutes in heaven
A timer is the best way to get your heart racing, as it feels as though you are working against the clock. You’ll want to act fast, and a fun way to do that is to try the seven minutes in heaven game.
Basically you set a timer, either on your phone or with a kitchen timer, for seven minutes. Then you go into a small space, such as a cupboard, wardrobe, or even shower cubicle, and get hot and steamy.
Obviously, since we are talking about fun you can have with your clothes on, there is a catch. No stripping off, and if you want a bigger challenge, no touching with anything but your lips. It will drive you both wild and, when the seven minutes is finally up, you’ll rip the clothes from each other and get right down to business.
Have you ever tried any of these games, or do you prefer your bedroom games to involve no clothes at all? You can give us your suggestions for more games on the Escort Norway forum, or in the comment box below.
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