Are You Worrying About The Wrong Things During Sex?

A lot of us spend far too much time worrying about the little things, and that is no different when it comes to sex. We panic about every little detail, worrying ourselves into a frenzy and finding it difficult to think about the things that really matter in the bedroom.

A man and woman lying in bed worrying

Well, we have taken a look at the top things that people worry about in the bedroom and have discovered that, actually, they are things that we really don’t need to worry about… but there are other concerns we are simply glossing over. On the Escort Norway blog we tell you if you are worrying about the wrong things during sex, and how to change the things you might be getting wrong.

Size really doesn’t matter

Women and men all over the world are fed up of saying this, but size really doesn’t matter in bed. You might think it does for the sake of your own ego, but it really doesn’t. What is the most important thing to a woman isn’t whether you have a big or small weapon, but whether you can actually use it in bed to bring her pleasure.

You might think that having a big dick will automatically make you a sex god. Sorry to break it to you, but it won’t. There are plenty of guys out there boasting cocks so big that you need an extra pair of hands to handle them, but they can’t do enough with it. They think that the size makes up for the fact that all they do is go in and out as fast as possible in the hope it’ll make you orgasm.

That isn’t how it works, so instead of worrying about whether you dick will suit Goldicocks, you need to start thinking about the way you use it in the bedroom to bring her orgasm after orgasm and leave her moaning in pleasure.

Instead of just sliding your cock in and out of her sweet, wet pussy, you need to change things up a bit. Something as simple as changing the rhythm might not seem as though it makes a huge difference to you, but that, with the perfect angle, could have her calling out your name in no time at all!

The noises you make

There is one thing that we are all guilty of worrying about, and that is the amount of noise we make. Okay, if it gets over a certain level it can become a real problem, but for the most part it never does. We are able to keep the noise down and still have a fucking fantastic time in bed, so why do we worry so much?

Lately there have been lots of reports of people making too much noise in bed and finding themselves in the courtroom for it. They are told to keep it down or face charges in the future, and even if that didn’t happen to you, there is still the embarrassing moment when a neighbour leaves you a note asking you to keep the noise down.

Of course, after a certain point you stop caring about making too much noise. If you find that you or your partner is quite loud in bed, give them something to keep quiet with. Honestly, there is nothing quite as hot as seeing your partner biting down on a pillow to try and stop themselves from screaming too loud, and simply saying that it is hot seeing them try to keep quiet might be enough.

Sex is for the young

Okay, so while most of us are at the peak of our physical fitness in our 20s, that doesn’t mean that the young ones are the only ones able to have great sex. For some reason, we start to worry that we are too old to do the things they did in their youth, but that really isn’t the case.

In fact, there have been plenty of studies that show older people are having just as much sex as their younger counterparts, and that the sex they have is even more satisfying. As certified sexual educator Melanie Davis said, “there’s less emphasis on quick orgasms and more focus on sensuality, creativity, and emotional connection.”

Take advantage of this by slowing down sex. Don’t rush to get to the finish line first. Instead, make foreplay last as long as possible, teasing your partner until they are begging you to let them finish. When you finally do take them over the edge, it will be much more intense and fun for it.

What should you worry about?

So basically, you don’t need to worry about your age, your dick size, or the noise you are making in bed. After all, sex isn’t supposed to be quiet and peaceful. It is supposed to be loud and a hell of a lot of fun. So what are the things that you should be worrying about?

For a start, one thing that people often forget about is their hygiene in bed. They tend not to think about it too much because they are worrying about the other things, but forgetting about your hygiene is a sure-fire way to ensure you never get a blowjob again. When you are in the shower, pay particular attention to your cock, rolling back the skin and cleaning with warm soapy water, and your ass. You don’t want to give them any nasty surprises!

Another thing you should be thinking about is what your partner wants in bed. We become so focused on our needs that we tend to forget about the people we are actually sleeping with. Take the time to ask them what they like the most in bed, and you will find yourself having better sex in no time at all.

What do you worry about the most in bed? Let us know on the Escort Norway forum or by leaving a comment in the box below.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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