Anal Sex Tips You Need To Know

There are so many different things for you to try in bed, but one of the more fun ones to do is anal sex. It is a bit of a taboo in the bedroom, and as we all know, if you tell people not to do something, they just want to do it more. That is the case with anal sex, and when done properly, anal sex can be one of the hottest, kinkiest, and most intense kinds of sex that you can have.

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When it comes to tips for anal sex, you tend to see the same things repeated over and over again. They tell you to take your time, to lube up, and to keep checking with your partner what feels good. Now, this is great advice if you are still a beginner to anal sex, but what about those of us who have been having it for a while and are looking for some amazing tips to make it better? Here on Escort Norway we have some of the best anal sex tips that you need to know.

Decide who is in control

One of the most popular positions for anal sex is doggy, and for good reason. This position lets either of you take control of the action, and it feels amazing for the both of you. You can go deep and hard if you want to, or tease by slowly grinding into them.

A lot of people assume that doggy style means that the top is in control, but that isn’t the case. In fact, the bottom can take control at any time by forcing their body back against them to make them go deeper, or pulling away if they need to go a little more slowly.

When you’re getting down to anal sex, it is best to decide just who is in control before you start. Otherwise, you might find you are both fighting to take control, or that neither of you really wants it.

You might find a happy balance together, and be more than happy to pass control between you, but most of us work differently. Figure out who is the one in control and let them guide the session. You’ll know from the way that they move if they want to go hard and fast or slow and teasing.

Anal isn’t just about the fantasy

One thing that often gets forgotten when it comes to anal sex is just what it is about. Okay, so you want to try something taboo and fulfil one of your ultimate fantasies, but it is also about enjoyment.

There is no point in having anal sex if you don’t enjoy it, because sex shouldn’t be just about one person’s needs. It is about compromise and finding what works out for the both of you, so make sure the one on the bottom enjoys themselves.

People sometimes forget that you can have an orgasm during anal sex, and this can happen if your cock is rubbing on her a-spot as you slowly slide yourself in and out. If she starts making a little more noise during sex, you know to keep doing the same thing until she quivers and screams in orgasm.

While the idea of having an orgasm from just the cock inside of you is nice, it is also not the reality for a lot of people. They might need a helping hand, so whether you are fucking a guy or a girl in the ass, keep a hand free to pleasure them. It will make their orgasm so much more intense.

Feel free to clench

When you orgasm you will find that your entire body tightens. It is almost as though your body is trying to cling to the thing that makes you feel this good, and it can feel amazing for the person with their cock inside of you.

Anal sex works in much the same way, and you’ll find that clenching at the right time can feel amazing.

Start by slowly slipping your cock into their ass and, when you are buried inside of them, ask them to tightened everything in their ass and relax again. It will feel as though they are trying to milk your cock to get your cum, and it will feel amazing.

It can be difficult to thrust while they are clenching, so you might instead want to simply grind away at them. Either way, you’ll build up a technique and you might just find you reach your orgasm simply from how tight their ass is on your cock.

It isn’t all about the speed

We are told so many times that you might have a bad experience with anal sex if the person you are fucking seems a little too eager to get as deep into your ass as they can, usually because they do it before you are ready.

However, it isn’t just the speed that can cause this. There are a huge number of factors, such as position and just how relaxed you are. The bottom line is that, if you don’t trust your partner and feel relaxed about anal sex, you’re going to have a bad time.

You don’t have to just pound your cock in and out to make it feel good. In fact, pressing hard against their ass and rocking your cock is a good way to do it, as it hits all of the right spots. This can also help your partner to relax, which is exactly what you want for amazing anal sex.

Got some other anal sex tips you want to share? Visit the Escort Norway forum and join in the discussion there, or you can leave a comment in the box below. What is your favourite part of anal sex? What is your favourite position for this sexy act? Let us know and see if others agree with you.

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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