7 Big Penis Sex Positions You’ll Want To Try

They say that size doesn’t matter, but when you have been gifted with a big penis, it can make a hell of a difference to sex. Some positions can actually be painful for your partner, and this means that you spend more time worrying about whether your cock is hurting them than enjoying sex.

A woman sits in bed and admires her partner's big penis

However, there are some sex positions that work better for those of you with a big penis. You will get all of the fun of sex without the pain, and you can experiment with some of these positions to make them even better for you.

1. Girl on top

For many people, the best way to ensure the most comfort when having sex with somebody with a large penis is to let the woman go on top. This puts her totally in control. She can then control just how deep your big penis slides into her and how intense things get. This makes it a hell of a lot better for her.

So, of course, the first position you should be looking at is the girl on top position. Not only is this great, as it allows you to play with her tits and rub at her clit, but it also means she has the control that she needs. She can slowly lower herself onto your cock, taking you as deep as she wants to, and while her pussy adjusts to the size of your cock, she can grind on you a little.

2. Reverse cowgirl

However, the girl on top position can feel a little bit boring sometimes, especially if you are more of an ass fan. You want to appreciate her sexy ass, and if so, a slight modification of the girl on top position can be great for you both.

Reverse cowgirl lets her sit on top of your cock and stay in control, but you also get to enjoy watching her ass bounce on top of you. The angle also means that your cock will not be able to slide as deeply into her pussy in one go, which makes it easier for her. She can take your cock slowly into her tight pussy, only taking it as far as she can manage.

3. Standing doggy

Doggy style is a favourite sex position for many, but if you have a big penis, then it is one of the worst positions to do. Your partner isn’t in control, and as you get caught up in the moment, you might find that you are going hard and fast. This is fine if your partner has gotten used to the sze of your dick, but if she hasn’t then you need to slow down.

A good way to make sure that you are taking things nice and slow is to try doggy style standing up. Get your partner to stand against the wall, leaning forward just a little. From here you should be able to get up behind her and slowly slip your cock inside of her. It’ll feel great for you both, and it will also stop you from going too hard in the beginning.

4. Lean back

Want to be really teased during sex? Positions that allow her to slowly grind on your cock are perfect for you. The problem is that those with a big penis will struggle to find good position for this.

This is where the lean back position is a great one to try. For this one, you want to lie down and let her climb on top of you in reverse doggy style. When she is comfortable and your penis is inside of her, get her to slowly lean back. She will be leaning back to the point where she is actually lying on top of you, with her back on your chest. In this position she can slowly grind on your cock, which will feel amazing for you both.

5. Stand and deliver

Sometimes you want to be a little bit more intimate with your partner. You want to get up close and personal with them. You want to see their face as you slide your big penis inside of them. So get up against the wall and have your fun there.

The stand and deliver position lets you do just that. You get to lean against the wall, and let your partner get close to you. Help her to lift one leg up, and hold it against or around your waist. From here you can ease your cock into her tight pussy. It might take a little time to get used to this position, but this one means that you won’t be going too fast or hard. You can enjoy an intimate fuck with your partner, watching their face as you make them cum with your huge dick inside of them.

6. The wide v

The wide V position puts you in control, and this is probably one of the two positions that is similar, in a way, to missionary. However, missionary isn’t a great position to try if you have a big penis, which is why you should instead try this position.

Get yourself next to a coffee table or low bed, and then kneel beside it. Your partner should then sit right on the edge, with her hips lower than yours. The downward angle means that you won’t go really deep inside of her, so less chance of hurting her. However, the angle will make her feel as though she is being filled, and your body is going to rub on her clit. Enjoy the fuck and watch her face as she cums on your cock.

7. Sitting pretty

It is important to pay attention to all areas of your partner’s body as you fuck. You don’t want to simply get your cock in their cunt and be done with it. Instead, you want to make sure your hands and mouth can explore and make her feel amazing. If you are a fan of boobs, this is the position for you.

Get into the girl on top position, but before she starts bouncing, slowly sit up. You can use your hands to stroke her body, or simply use them to prop yourself up. Best of all, she can either bounce and see how far as can take your cock or she can grind. While she grinds, take the opportunity to kiss and lick her tits. You’ll both feel great in this position, and the extra attention will show that you are really enjoying the moment.

Big penis sex tips

Those lucky enough to have a member large enough to be classed as a weapon of mass seduction will know that it can take time for your partner to get used to the size of your big penis. You need to slowly ease them into it, taking your time with sex. That is why finding the right sex position is so important, but there are other factors you need to keep in mind.

Lube and foreplay will be your best friends. When you spend enough time on foreplay, her pussy will be much more receptive to your cock, and lube can help you slide your thick meat inside of her. Got some other tips you want to share? You can use the comment box below to give us your best tips.

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Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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