There are some things that we long to do in the bedroom, and most of the time, our kinky interests are influenced by the things we are told not to do. One of the big ones for many of us is anal. We love the idea of a rock hard cock sliding into someone’s tight asshole, and it is a fantasy for so many of us.
However, people are terrified of it. Why? Because there are so many people out there claiming that taking it up the ass hurts. And they are right. It does… when you do it wrong. If you rush in too quickly, forget the lube, or just do it purely for your own pleasure, it can really hurt.
So here on the Escort Norway blog we take a look at five ways you can make anal more pleasurable for her. Yes, it is possible and we tell you how.
1. Be prepared
One of the key things that you will need to remember is to be prepared. Far too many go straight in for anal and expect it to be just like fucking a pussy. It isn’t. To begin with, your ass isn’t self-lubricating like the cunt, so you’ll need to have lube and plenty of it. When it comes to fucking her up the ass, there is no such thing as too much lube.
You should also remember that the ass can be dirty. It isn’t anything that a long shower can’t fix, but even with a good and thorough clean, you might encounter something you’d rather not. Instead of freaking out and making your partner feel bad, have some tissues, wipes, and towels to hand. Your partner will be grateful.
2. Turn her on
Another big thing that people tend to forget is that you need to turn her on. No, the ass will not become lubricated from this, but it will help her to relax and get much more enjoyment from it.
By turning her on, she is going to be much more open to your cock sliding into her sexy ass. Her body will be more relaxed, and every stroke of your hands down her body is going to make her start begging for you to fuck her. If you want her to enjoy it, you will need her to be horny.
3. Foreplay and her ass
You can’t go straight into the ass. Unfortunately, this is one of the most common mistakes. People wrongly assume that turning her on and using lube is all you need. If you want to have amazing anal sex, you are going to need to get her ass ready for your cock.
Why not enjoy a little foreplay with her? Instead of slowly squeezing her tits, you should try paying attention to her ass. Gently massage it, teasing the hole with your finger, before lubing it up and sliding it in. It’ll make her feel amazing, and by slowly teasing her in this way, you’ll make her horny and more open to receiving your cock. Over time, she will adjust to your finger, and if you combine it with clitoral stimulation using your other hand, you’ll have her screaming in pleasure in no time.
4. The perfect anal sex position
The traditional position for anal tends to be doggy style, but a lot of people find that this doesn’t work well for them. It can make it too difficult to slide your cock in all of the way without hurting your partner, especially if this kinky fun is still relatively new for them.
This is where you will need to experiment to find what works for you. A lot of people find that lying on their stomach or getting into the spooning position is perfect for easing into it slowly, while others prefer to be on top. Being on top will put your partner totally in control, so talk to them to find out what works best.
5. Slow and steady wins the race
When you finally slip your cock into that tight hole, it can be tempting to just go for it. However, thrusting too hard and fast can actually really hurt your partner and cause all kinds of problems. It can tear the skin around the ass, which leaves them open to infection. Definitely not what you want!
To start with, you should go slowly. Even if you have been doing anal with this person for a while. You need to give their body time to adjust, and by going slow you also get the chance to see what they enjoy the most. They might like you simply flexing your cock inside of them, so experiment and take your time doing it!
Talking about anal
Hopefully these tips will help you have a happy and fun anal sex life, but one of the best things that you can do is talk to your partner about it. If you have asked for anal then you should feel comfortable enough with the sexy lady in question to talk about what they want.
What works for one person might not work for another, so in order to find out what she likes with her ass, you need to talk about it. Not sure how to strike up the conversation? Why not post your problem in the comment box below.
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In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.