4 Simple Adjustments To Your Favourite Sex Positions

When it comes to sex many of us are happy to experiment and try new things, but there are always those favourites we fall back to when we just want to have hot sex. There are a few favourite sex positions we can’t get enough of, but after a while they start to turn a little stale and, well, boring.

4 Simple Adjustments To Your Favourite Sex Positions

The moment that you start to think of a sex position as boring is the time to make a change. Thankfully, these changes you can make are very simple and easy. No, you don’t have to pull out the Kama Sutra or start working on your flexibility in order to enjoy sex again. You can just make a small adjustment and have incredible sex still in your favourite sex positions! So here’s what you need to do.

1. Missionary

This is considered by many to be a pretty boring sex position, and yet it is the position that we will constantly find ourselves going back to. It allows the man to take control and the woman to touch him or herself all over as you fuck.

There are two different variations you can do to this position. The first is to raise your partner’s legs up. Try hooking them over your shoulders. It will allow you to thrust even deeper and make sex so much more intense.

Another adjustment you can make is to get your partner to lie down with their legs together. It can be a bit more of a challenging to slip your cock inside when she is in this position, but she’ll feel tighter and it’ll seem to her as though you are filling her up. Plus, you are going to rub at her clit more, meaning she is more likely to orgasm through sex. It’s a win/win situation!

The missionary position is great for getting closer
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2. Cowgirl

Cowgirl, or girl on top, is another one of our favourite sex positions. This time, the woman is in control. She gets to decide just how deep your cock slides inside of her and how fast you go. Sure, you can thrust up to meet her, but you’ll find that you are totally at her mercy.

If you are hoping to get a little more intimate in this position, then a great thing to do is to make it so. All you have to do is sit up. If you sit up in bed with your back resting against the headboard, you’ll find that you can share more kisses. Sex will be slower and more intense, and the slight adjustment in angle will help you to hit her g-spot.

Want to give your partner control? Cowgirl is the position for you
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3. Spooning

Spooning is a popular position because it allows you to get closer. Plus, it is ideal for those early morning fucks when you aren’t quite ready to get out of bed but are eager to have some fun. It makes it the perfect way for you to start your day.

A fun adjustment for this is to simply get your partner to cross her legs. Yes, her keeping her legs together feels good, but you’ll find that as your partner crosses her legs together, things feel more intense. Each stroke will feel deeper, and if you reach around to rub her clit she’ll be coming in no time at all.

Spooning is the perfect position to wake you up in the morning
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4. Standing sex

This position is better for those of you with the upper body strength, as it is a difficult one to maintain. However, for many it is the perfect position to really get your cock deep inside of your partner, and is ideal for those moments when you just want a quick fuck. Plus, getting face to face makes it intimate.

Because this position is a challenge, it is a good idea to make adjustments to make it easier but just as intense. One thing to do is make sure a surface is behind your partner. A wall works, but if you have a full length mirror firmly secured to the wall, this will be better. The cold material on their back will heighten everything and make it even more amazing.

Another simple twist is to make sure your partner has a chair nearby, just in case. Often the security of a chair that they can press their toes against to get leverage is enough to make them relax and just enjoy it. They won’t worry too much about slipping, and you’ll find that you can both go for longer.

Feeling strong? Standing sex is great for you
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How do you change your favourite sex positions?

We can get pretty stubborn when it comes to our favourite sex positions. We know that they work and so we are often reluctant to change them in any way. However, it is actually a good idea to make slight adjustments.

For one, you are still enjoying your favourite positions, just in a slightly different way. Two, it can make it feel like a new position and really spice up sex!

Got some other suggestions on how you can adjust your favourite sex positions? Let us know by leaving a comment in the box!

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Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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