4 Penis Problems And How To Deal With Them

Sex doesn’t always go according to plan. If it did, everyone would be having amazing sex all of the time and bragging about how fantastic they feel. Sometimes you find that there is no chemistry in the bedroom between you and your partner. Sometimes you have to deal with other factors, such a penis problems.

A man wondering how to deal with his penis problems

When you run into penis problems in the bedroom it can be a huge knock to your confidence. You thought you were doing well, that you were ticking all of the boxes… and now your cock isn’t co-operating. So what can you do to change that?

Here on the Escort Norway blog we take a look at four of the most common penis problems that people encounter in the bedroom, and give you some great tips and tricks to help you deal with them.

Can’t get it up or keep it up

One of the most common penis problems people face in the bedroom is that they have trouble keeping it up. You’re really excited and can’t wait to fuck, but your cock just doesn’t rise to the occasion. When this does happen can leave you feeling pretty shit.

What makes it worse it that you start to get yourself worked up and stressed. You feel embarrassed about it and start to worry that your partner is judging you. All of the stress of it then makes the chances of your dick playing ball even lower.

First of all, you should understand that this is definitely one of the more common penis problems. You are not alone. In fact, it is estimated that one in ten men all over the world will actually suffer from erectile dysfunction. It can happen at any time, although it is more common in men between the ages of 40 and 70, where half of them struggle with it.

So, how do you deal with it? First, work out whether it is a psychological problem or a physical one. It might seem like a physical thing you need to fix, but often things like stress, anxiety, or just a low mood can make it difficult to keep your cock hard.

Instead of getting upset in the moment, try to deal with the stress you are feeling. Talking to someone, enjoy a massage, even hitting the gym can make a big difference. Try those solutions before you head to a doctor.

Of course, if that doesn’t do the trick, it might just be that there are some physical problems at work. You might find that a recent injury has caused the problems, or that a hormone imbalance is making things challenging for you. Sometimes, it can be that the blood vessels in your cock have narrowed.

The idea of going to a doctor might seem embarrassing, but weigh up your options. Would you rather talk to your doctor and get a solution, or would you rather worry that every time you jump into bed, your cock isn’t going to rise to the occasion?

Cumming too soon

Excitement can do a lot of things to you. The building of tension in bed, the fun fumbling around in foreplay, and the teasing might mean that you get a little too excited too quickly. Premature ejaculation is another one of the penis problems lots of people face.

It is frustrating because, when it happens, you just aren’t ready for the fun to end. You want to carry on, to enjoy every single minute, but instead you worry that each thrust might be the last.

As with erectile dysfunction, worrying about premature ejaculation often makes things worse. It’s a bit of a self fulfilling prophecy. You think that you are going to cum too quickly, so you cum too quickly and are left feeling disappointed.

There are a few different solutions for you to try to help deal with it. Some people swear by jerking off before their date. Because you have already cum, it takes longer for you to get to the point of no return. In a way, it turns the sex into a “round two”, making you last that little bit longer.

Investing in the right condoms is also a great idea. You can buy some that are thicker, meaning that while your partner still feels your cock as you thrust it hard and fast into them, the sensations on your dick won’t be as intense. You can even buy some that have a numbing style lube on the inside, which can help to further desensitise you.

If either of the above solutions just isn’t possible, there is a simpler way to deal with PE. Try stopping the fun when you are getting a little bit too close. You’ll learn where you point of no return is and you can take the time to do something to get your partner excited, such as going down on them. The break gives you the chance to calm down and, because you are pleasuring your partner, they’ll still feel great. When you are ready to continue, go for it with gusto!

Struggling to cum at all

You might be reading about premature ejaculation and thinking that you have the opposite problem. It all feels so great and intense, but you find that you seem to struggle to get to orgasm at all… even when you are sure you are about to come.

Delayed ejaculation might not be as common as premature ejaculation, but it is still one of the penis problems that plenty of men face and have to deal with every day. As with PE, delayed ejaculation can be caused by psychological issues.

Anxiety can make it hard for you to relax and just let go, so a massage can really help with that. If that doesn’t work, it might just be that the quick way you masturbate has meant sex under stimulates your cock. The solution here is to simply enjoy longer foreplay, not letting yourself slide your cock into their pussy until the moment you are about to come. Over time, you’ll get used to the feeling of their cunt on your dick, instead of your hand and the speed it moves.

Tight foreskin

One of the penis problems that doesn’t often get addressed by others is phimosis. If you find that your foreskin is too tight, making it difficult and even painful to masturbate or have sex, you might be struggling with phimosis.

Some people can struggle through sex with a tight foreskin, making sure their partner knows the perfect way to handle their cock. However, if they don’t, it can lead to swelling, soreness, and a lot of red, tender skin. Ouch!

Washing your cock regularly can help to relax the skin a little, giving you the chance to see how it moves. Forcing it can do lasting damage, so take your time and see what happens. However, a lot of people find that a visit to the doctor is necessary. They can help you figure out the perfect solution so you can go back to enjoying sex properly.

How do you deal with your penis problems?

Most of the time, you can use home remedies to sort out your penis problems, but sometimes there is nothing else you can do. Sometimes you just have to swallow your pride and go to see the doctor. Doctors see things like this all of the time, so try to keep that in mind when you start to get embarrassed. They are there to help you, so give them as much detail as you can about your penis problems.

Hopefully this guide has gone a little way to helping you figure out the best way to deal with your penis problems. However, you might have some other tips that you want to share with others, or perhaps you simply want to join in the discussion?

The Escort Norway forum is the perfect place for you to get involved. The growing community here loves talking about the big issues, so see what they have to say about the penis problems above. You might even spot an incredible tip that really works!

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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