4 Oral Sex Tips You Need To Know

Oral sex might seem as though it is really simple to do, but there are plenty of people who get it wrong. They might put the effort in, but they will also attempt to rush through it and leave their partner feeling totally unsatisfied. That, of course, isn’t what they want to do. They want to leave their partner feeling amazing and make them shake with the intense orgasm they give them. That’s why we have decided to put together four oral sex tips that you absolutely need to know to keep your partner satisfied and happy in the bedroom.

A man readying his tongue after reading some oral sex tips

There are some common errors people make when it comes to oral sex. They’ll rush into it, thinking that sheer willpower will get their partner to orgasm, and when they don’t they’ll feel as though they’ve let them down. They go too quick and get tired within a few minutes because they have really gone for it. They put pressure, mostly unintentionally, on their partner to orgasm, and this usually results in a lot of fake and over the top moaning and groaning to make you think they are satisfied. They aren’t, so use our oral sex tips to get your partner off and leave them feeling amazing!

Relax!

One of the biggest things holding women back from an orgasm is the fact that they are tense and just not in the mood for it. When they are feeling stressed or worked up over something, their body will tighten up, and this can make getting them to orgasm that little bit more challenging.

The first step before you even get your head between their legs is to help them relax. Something that we have found works well is to get them in the shower or in the bath first, and while they are in there you can prepare the bedroom.

Lay down some warm, clean towels on the bed for them. When they are done with the shower, ask them to lie on their front on the bed and start giving them a slow and sensual massage. Not only will this help to ease their tired and aching body, but it will also turn them on, ready for the fun to begin!

Broad strokes of the tongue

A common thing that people do with their tongue during oral sex is to harden it into a point and lick away at the clit and pussy lips this way. It might be effective, but it isn’t the best way to do it.

For a start, the hardness of your tongue in this form can actually be painful to your partner if you put too much pressure on the clit. You will also find your tongue gets tired easily, which can ruin the fun pretty quickly!

Instead, keep your tongue flat and use long, broad strokes on the clit and pussy lips. This ensures you hit every part of her sweet pussy that she likes you licking, and it will stop your tongue from getting too tired. It is the perfect solution!

Repetitive doesn’t mean boring

One of my biggest pet peeves when it comes to oral sex is a technique that a lot of people seem to believe magically works to get every single woman in the world off, and that is the alphabet technique. If you don’t know what it is, the alphabet technique is basically where you use the tip of your tongue on their clit to spell out each letter of the alphabet.

Now this technique might be great for teasing them, but there is a reason that it is one of the worst oral sex tips out there. Women need the same constantly stimulation to get off, and by changing what you are doing with your tongue, you aren’t helping her get to orgasm.

Instead, find something that she likes and stick with it. Does she like your tongue swirling constantly around her clit? Do that. Does she enjoy you gently sucking on her? Keep doing it. Repetitive doesn’t always mean boring.

Enjoy it and don’t stop!

As a guy, you’ll probably know when the person you’re with doesn’t enjoy giving oral sex. They might still do it, but they won’t be as enthusiastic about giving it as you are about receiving it.

It is exactly the same for women. If you aren’t into it, we can tell, and often we might be tempted to push you away or simply fake it to get it over with quicker. However, if you do enjoy giving oral sex, don’t be ashamed to show how into it you are. It will turn us on even more!

Another great thing to remember is that, if we are enjoying it, you shouldn’t stop. Keep doing exactly what you are doing and listen to what noises we are making. We will make it pretty clear if your techniques are working so you’ll know exactly when to stop or when you need to keep going.

The best oral sex tips

Hopefully you’ll find the oral sex tips above useful the next time you go down on a sexy lady, but if you think you have some better ones to share, you should use the comment box below. Tell us your go to oral sex tips and see if others feel the same.

You could also see what others are saying by heading over to the Escort Norway forum. You could even join in the discussion about the best oral sex tips that you can use, and you may even find yourself talking to one of the beautiful escorts in Norway!

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Lara Mills

Lara Mills is a writer who has four years of sex industry expertise behind her. Since she entered the adult industry, she has worked on the Escort Advertising forums, before moving into her current role three years ago.

Since then she has gained a fine reputation with her blogs on sex advice, sexual health and amusing news stories from around the globe. She is also a campaigner for the rights of sex workers from all over the world.

In her spare time, Lara keeps herself active by going running, and is something of a film buff. She also loves to go travelling.
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